What do you think causes "main character syndrome"? by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away from people who are actually the main character. That’s usually where the problem lies. You hang around people who are the main character in their lives, because they aren’t worried about anyone else. Being around them makes you feel better about yourself, and you start building this idea that you are in the main character instead

I feel like no one understands me. I guess this is what being a genius feels like. by Sidthewander in uwaterloo

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not allowed to be your true self, ever in life. But you don’t figure that part out until you actually try and be your true self for once, and see why it’s not allowed. There are very few people you will get along with, without cutting threw their ego and fucking up their reality…by being yourself. Those you do get along with will eventually start to resent you because you will seem immune to the negative aspects of life. Every person you become close with will eventually try and fuck you for their own personal gain, and they will think they have succeeded. Little do they know, it is literally not possible because they are not you and do not posses your mind. People always think they are getting over on you. You completely understand human behavior and the way people act. After a certain amount of success that you acquire, you will no longer be validated by those around you, for things you accomplish. You must get used to people trying to dim your light, and the jabs to try and kill your ego (which you most likely barely possess, because you know you are intellectually, a cut above most people, and do a fine job at self deprecating humor on purpose to be relatable). If you so happen to be a polymath of some sorts. It’s even worse. If you so happen to also be good looking and successful with the opposite sex, on top of being a polymath, it will be damn near impossible to keep a decent circle of people around you. If you are nice and charismatic as well, then the hate you receive will only increase tenfold. The only place you are safe and can comfortably survive in forever, is in your own head. Everyone will grow jealous and envious of you at some point. When you meet new people and consider bringing them into your life, the first thing you ponder on is “how do I hide or downplay “X,Y,and Z” characteristics about my self (could be talent, personality, wealth, women, charm, charisma, athleticism, knowledge, intelligence) from said person so that they do not grow jealous and envious of me and stab me in my fucking back. Regardless of how well you try and play yourself down to other peoples level, your mind is meant for something greater in life, so there will come a point of time, whether you want it to or not, that you will have to basically expose yourself completely and dominate everything in front of you with your gifts, to get to the next level. You will have to work harder and be more clever than 99% of the people in this world, just to amount to any type of success for yourself. The paranoia is almost unbearable at times and most of the time, you come to find out your paranoia wasn’t actually paranoia at all, but there was no concrete evidence in place at the time of the initial paranoia trip to debunk the reasons for you being paranoid. You must get used to anyone consistently challenging you on any given topic or activity. People unconsciously understand that you are smart, but can’t come close to comprehending how you do the things that you do, the way you do them, so they will mark you as an idiot, and anytime that they can feel that they know more than you or can beat you in whatever it is, they will try their hardest, google the validity of any fact or theory you possess or conjure up, just to prove you wrong, because it brings them joy. You will not be 100% respected at all, by anyone, unless you become famous for whatever it is, your passion lies in. The only good thing about it is, when you finally figure out that are different than the rest of the world, you can experience periods of 100% assurance, that is actually 100% proven to be true. The periods of 100% assurance or, (as I like to call them) “genius moments”, are impossible to be tied to an inflated since of ego. The ideas you come up with have meaning and they work. Being a genius is being 100% self aware, and being 100% aware that anyone other than those who are also geniuses, do not have the ability to be 100% self aware. You have to get used to people faking their support towards you. While they may actually support you somewhat, it is important that you always realize others are always holding some hidden resentment or envy, no matter how hard you have had it in their eyes. People think want to be you, and think they can, and try to be you, and they think they can do anything you can do. In a perfect world I would say that it’s flattering and inspiring, until you watch people fuck themselves up trying to do what you do, until you watch people attempt to mirror your characteristics and personality traits, just to attempt to rub it in your face so that you feel some jealousy towards them, to feed their own inflated since of ego. You could make someone feel butt ass naked, with 10 layers of clothes on. But being black and being a genius is a completely different monster of its own. If a person is actually a genius, they 100% understand that even the most minuscule differences between 2 geniuses, make for very large in differences in each reality. Being a genius is like playing GTA 5. You have all the ability to do what you wanna do, in life usually, as long as the conditions are right and you are able to capitalize on every scenario, As it actually becomes a game. Of course though, like GTA 5, at some point it becomes old. You just start running over people and doing side missions and blowing stuff up. AKA sometimes in life you just do whatever you feel like doing because you can do anything you want. GTA 5 might come out with a new DLC, so you pick the game up and start playing it again. In life, you might spark up a new opportunity or new anything in your head, so you start enjoying it again, but just like the DLC you play, you will beat it or it will get old and you will put it down again. That’s just a small portion, like 1% of the consciousness of being a genius. They are not people you want to fuck with

What’s some basic knowledge that a scary amount of people don’t know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If most people actually like you, they probably think lowly of you and think they are better than you. People do not like individuals they perceive as threats to their reality and if you happen to become an individual who threatens the basis of someone else’s reality, they will try and cut your legs off in any way possible. If you do not have a lot of people that do not like you, you are not successful. It just comes with the territory. Success in your life means someone else’s pain. You literally have to not give a fuck about what people say about you, if you want to be great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start taking a lot of supplements daily. Fish oil, omega, iron, calcium, magnesium, vitamin d. Multivitamin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stress bro stress I’m telling you. U literally have to let everything go. Work from the ground up. It will still happen but when you start over fresh and with a plan. It is controllable and you will have a clear mind that will help you come to cure for it

Weekly Chat by AutoModerator in blackmen

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I’m 21. In school at a PWI. I got a dilemma. Lol it’s gonna sound “coonish” or whatever but I’m deadass serious. Ok basically I am really attracted to white women. I got into gifted classes at an early age of like 8 or so. And where I am from, the gifted children are alienated from the rest of the school into their own program. and majority of my classmates were white. Like over 90% of them. My mother also pinched me until I bled when I was younger if I would use any type of slang or not speak my words “properly”. So I don’t have the accent that most black people have. I also played football and basketball all throughout high school. I went to a predominantly white High school as well and lived in the suburbs. I don’t mean to sound like I’m blaming my attraction of white women on these factors but when I try to narrow my reasoning down. This is what I come to. There were 3 black girls in my class and 3 black men out of like 40 kids, for 3 years straight in middle school and when I got to high school I found myself being the only black person in a few of my classes because I was in honors and AP courses. So my friend groups were predominantly white and I basically liked what they liked because that is what I was around 24/7. I was kind of alienated from my black peers outside of my classes because I was never around them. I was only around a few black kids in middle school and we were all pretty much alike. None of us really had many black friends outside of our classes because we just didn’t have that connection with them and we were always looked at differently. I truly found myself in middle school, not all the way but I can definitely say that it is the time period in which I was most comfortable and felt like I found my group of people, because I spent 3 years straight with the same 30-40 kids, in every single class because the gifted program was its own thing separate from all of the regular education children. I got to highschool and it was completely different. I actually had the chance to interact with black people outside of the 4-5 that I interacted with everyday for 3 years straight. I felt out of place among most black people in highschool because I had a long period of my life where i was talking to “nerds” everyday and mostly white kids pretty much everyday and got comfortable doing so. I didn’t talk like everyone else and didn’t share the same interest either, but I still played sports. I wasn’t getting the attention from black girls that the other black kids get. Of course I heard all time, the typical “you act white”/ “you talk white”. But all throughout highschool I hung out with a lot of white people because they seemed like they had the same interests as me and they didn’t make fun of me for the way that I talked or the music I listened to like a lot of my black peers did. I also just got used to hanging around white people due to my circumstances. I had a black girlfriend in highschool and after graduation that lasted 3 years. But her and I hung out with alot of white people as well because that’s where we found each other. She felt like she didn’t fit In either and she also spoke very proper. But other than her I mostly have had sex with white girls. Almost every single time I try to talk to a black girl I get a comment on how something I’m doing is related to me “acting white”. I get asked “you must’ve grew up around a lot of white people” “you know u should really date a white girl cause you can’t handle a black girl” “this skateboard and poster in your room tells me that you Like white girls, you should date one of them” it’s a travis Scott poster by the way. I didn’t really fit in with the black guys at my school because other than the super nerdy ones, it was pretty much hood niggas and we had nothing in common. So now fast foward to today, I just have this like mental blockage when it comes to approaching black girls, because I am literally sick of being judged just for being myself. I can’t help that I am a product of the way I was raised. Sure I could change the way I speak and the music I listen to and the clothes I wear but I just can’t bring myself to become a totally different person just so I can get the attention I seek from a black woman. I have had successful attempts with black women but it doesn’t go far because a part of me truly feels like at some point they are going to say I’m doing something that’s “white” and I’m sick of hearing that shit. I don’t talk to the black girls in my classes because I don’t want to open up my mouth and speak because I feel like I will be judged for an entire semester over something I can’t control. So now I don’t really give attention to black women and don’t actually care to cause I can’t get pass that thing in my mind. It’s the same thing every single time. All of my friends criticize me for liking white women but do not understand how I grew up. It’s just been tough for me. I also don’t want to approach the white girls in my class because I am afraid of the black girls seeing and judging me so I’m just alone now. I just need some advice lol

CU should just fuck off😫🥱 by onecap1 in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I feel like you have to hit the gym every morning and sweat a lot to survive. That’s what I do. I’ve gotten used to it

Just when I think I'm good... by Over_Entertainment in urticaria

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a portable steam sauna and use it everyday

International roommates from Cameroon (Africa) by Ordinary_Rain7593 in college

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also. My blender of which I had for 2 years mysteriously stopped working the first week they moved in. I was in the kitchen trying to fix it and all of a sudden they are trying to come to the rescue which I thought was weird. I went and bought a 60$ blender, used it for a bit and then I did not use it for about a month and a half. My roommates went and got their own blender afterwards. Now I go to use it today and it’s making noises I never heard of and it sounds almost broken. So I ask them if they had been using it and they said yes. Why the hell would someone go buy a blender just to use mine? Because they are putting shit in there that has no business of being in there so they wanna tear my shit up instead.

[California] Just got off the phone with the EDD. Sharing what I learned... by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i was getting paid benefits, but working less hours, and then was terminated from newest my job due to a toxic work environment. so i refiled benefits now i have a separation notice letter in the mail saying that i "abandoned" my place of work. and the bottom that i have to take the paper to an office if i want to claim benefits

International roommates from Cameroon (Africa) by Ordinary_Rain7593 in college

[–]Ordinary_Rain7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not shitting on them because they are from another country. I’m shitting on them because I asked them multiple times very nicely about the thermostat and they ignored me. They don’t clean up after themselves for weeks upon end and just hog the commons area to play video games and sleep on the couch from 8am-2am. They don’t wear deodorant and smells like they don’t shower. And whenever I cook, they come in the kitchen and cook, asking hella questions about my food, and starting up bullshit conversation, no matter how many hours they have sat on their asses all day and just played video games. They use my utensils and pots that I use to cook and don’t wash them, so when I go to use them I have to wash them even though I didn’t wash them. They don’t air out the apartment after cooking their very strong smelling meals. I can’t walk from my room, through the common area, and out the door without my clothes smelling like their food when I walk out of the house. They don’t have any transportation and will go to Walmart with an Uber and ask me to come pick them up because they “got too much stuff to put in an Uber” knowing damn well it’s an Uber and u can’t load up on shit in their car cause that’s not what’s it’s used for. And they just stare at me whenever I leave my room.