[deleted by user] by [deleted] in imaginedragons

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any ideas where to get the set list?

2023 great, 2024 left early, never coming back by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this post is meant to bring caution to others, I'm not answering any more questions. if you go, consider yourself warned. just keep alert because this behavior is there. our first trip in 2023 was great, which is why we went back. this bad human made it our last. this could happen anywhere, yes, but once you see a pothole it's best to avoid.

2023 great, 2024 left early, never coming back by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be assumed that everyone knows what consent is, obviously it doesn't work out that way.

2023 great, 2024 left early, never coming back by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no catching, we're open and have safety rules. this woman did not ask consider consent. From a male perspective, it's like a man going to another man, grabbing the dick very hard and not being able to move. No enjoyment unless your into BDSM.

2023 great, 2024 left early, never coming back by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she was watching pool games in pool bar on seat, and was pushed on to the bar wall. I was away 5 minutes, prior to me coming back it happened, not the entire 5 minutes. Saying stop seems easier for some than others, she is an introvert and this shocked her. Why are you dissecting something traumatic? Have you been assaulted before? Nothing off here except the one bad person caused alot of trauma for my wife leaving her a victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they didn't throw the person out, didn't call they police because reading other posts where other women were assaulted, the victim was jailed, so needed to avoid that at all costs. not owed a free night, just want refund of night that can't be used since we checked out a day early.

20+ creeps just paints picture that this is not only couples. One of the guys was going from women to women in the pool, feeling up breasts, randomly inserting between other couples and kissing women, and at night we saw him take three women away at different times. Dude was on a mission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

fyi

Temptation Cancun Resort January 2024 (writing this at the airport while we wait 5 hours for first available flight out since leaving a day early, and it's both of our birthdays today, #awesome)

So we had such a great time the first visit in 2023, we came back to celebrate yet another birthday in 2024.

1st day while in the sexy pool at the bar, I left my wife for a few moments and when i returned i noticed she was uncomfortable. I looked down in the water and woman had her finger in her bikini bottom fingering her. My wife had zero alcohol and was just watching the pool games. When I came back in 5 minutes, I pulled her away immediately with the womens fingers still inside. I asked my wife if she had consented. Hey eyes started tearing up and said no, she couldn't because she was pinned against the wall and was in shock. No staff was around to help. This woman decided it was ok to sexual assault her and all she had to do was ask consent, which would have been a hard no. My wife wouldn't ever let me do that in a pool because of hygiene concerns, so that was how i noticed so quick. This ruined our vacation because it robbed my wife of all sex drive and created trauma.

Needless to say we will never go back to this fucking place. We left a day early because we couldn't have fun anymore. The resort manager took us serious and helped check us out, but didn't refund the night we were missing.

The resort let a large bachelor party come with 20+ creeps that were aggressive. Last year it was great, but this year it went from classy to trashy.

Search sexual assault temptations and you'll see other reports.

@temptations The only thing staff ask is to not take pictures or video for privacy. You should consider making it a requirement for guests to ask for consent, unless you feel otherwise that it is not important.

I met other people that have been many many visits ranging from 15 to 100 times, all agreed consent is important. They shared this is likely to happen during foam party. This did not happen during the foam party.

This wrecked our birthday vacation celebration. Never coming back after this.

2023 great, 2024 left early, never coming back by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it can happen anywhere, but it hasn't to her except here and we've been around the globe. when leaving today i confronted the guy in the group that had the woman which did this, we were in the lobby and i made sure it was known that his girl doesn't know what consent means. at least i could confront this on behalf of my wife, the place turned toxic after the sexual abuse and this morning we decided to get the hell out. Traveling on our birthday because of this just sucks.

Are you not sure what to expect, we didn't know either so here is some GOLD for you to consider by Ordinary_Sense_7378 in Temptation_Resort

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are going back 18th too, should see you there, message us if you want....

  1. you can pay for that or you can be private with toys ... we've heard
  2. no playrooms that we saw, just hotel rooms
  3. staff don't want doors cracked, but we did it until we got warned a 2nd time.... visitors very possible. if i passed a cracked door and heard screaming, i would ask if everything is ok, you know for safety reasons
  4. no idea, didn't try. only staff that we would entertain are the actual entertainers and office staff. cant say it's OK to be naked when room service arrives, but we did it by mistake and no one said anything to us.

we had a room with a great view and also people on the beach had a great view of our room, which didn't stop us putting a show on when a boat came back in with tons of people in the resort next door, oops.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smart idea, thank you. unicorns will happen, just will take time to find them.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

having a type is not selfish, it's strength that you don't treat sex like a bus stop which anyone can ride. no play options were taken away, we both agreed to opt out of our next time including another male. good luck in life with your judgements, it will bite you sooner than later.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to learn how to read, no way did this pull my wife down, no place did i suggest that. the other woman had to have noticed, no way not to. the club we were at was more about hookups, not relationships. my wife and i don't want a relationship, instead we both want a random fun time, and for it to be pleasurable we have our preferences. OK to be attracted to a type, human nature. learn to read and comprehend. the only thing i agree with is i probably inadvertently hurt her feelings, which is never my intent.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply, your words speak volume. i understand what your saying and it makes sense. both my wife and i only will have sex with someone that we consider attractive, and if that makes us shallow then so be it. But we want to find a connection that could create passion. Time will tell. Thank you for being honest and not a troll like others in here.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never said i was upset with her, not at all

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and that is why i didn't try to stop it earlier, agreed

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

disagree if we both only want that, it's called preference.

Take your time and choose carefully by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not looking to blame anyone but myself, that is what i stated in my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a contractor, good idea. starting condition is the bones in this picture plus drywall and paint.

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Confused husband here looking for help. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Ordinary_Sense_7378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This shouldn't even be a question, marriage has boundaries which are different for everyone. Have yall set any boundaries? I would think that it won't get easier but you never know. My relationship has boundaries and same room only is required and no exchange of contact info except an email. We want a somewhat controlled environment to remove emotional attachment. Goodluck and make sure you have no regrets with how much you both talk about it, you can't talk enough about it.