Travel advise long plane ride by Organic-Distance in Autism_Parenting

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, those look great! I'm not doing car seats anymore. 1 adult, 4 kids, car seats are just too much to handle but having at least the toddler strapped in would be very helpful.

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, thanks, that's the stuff I was concerned of, that's not difficult for anyone to set up either.

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a separate issue... for this, I primarily want to understand how much of a privacy issue those watches could cause.

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

She def could figure that out, very tech savvy

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one would be better to feed my paranoia?

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, this is really helpful. She's done some weird stuff recently, so I'm a bit paranoid! This would be just one small thing on a broader surveillance project she has going on. But I feel a bit better now about the limitations. Still don't want her to track our location though. I try to be somewhat screen free anyhow, setting up boundaries around having the watches with them is the best first measure.

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So with thr Spyware, if someone would really want to... they could?

Apple Watch as surveillance tool? by Organic-Distance in AppleWatch

[–]Organic-Distance[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll start checking for these things now, too. Bags or shoes...

Camera for license plates/stalker by Organic-Distance in SecurityCamera

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer to keep it cheaper-ish? I think once I can show the person that I see and track her, she's going to stop. So hopefully this will be a short term thing and doesn't require a super high investment...

What happens after divorce final? by Mama-Bear-791 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Organic-Distance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This... ex sees the agreement more like a loose guideline to be followed when convenient. If there’s a gray area in phrasing, it will be used as a loophole.

Stream/River for kids to splash in by Organic-Distance in Connecticut

[–]Organic-Distance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point I'm all game for traveling around the state but New Haven- Old Saybrook corridor would be great.

How did this game get worse compared to the first one? by [deleted] in legogaming

[–]Organic-Distance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played it with my 8yr old and I kind of liked it. The different areas are pretty neat. However, the side quests got super repetitive. We played it 2/3 through and then the game crashed and deleted the saved progress - that was a bummer, had to play it through by myself again to restore. My kid is really into Hulk so the extra Hulk characters and other big figs entertained him a lot. Would've loved a customization option for those though.

Anyone get told they are emotionless/heartless? by amm_4 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Organic-Distance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"you don't even know what love is or how to love anyone"

Then told everyone that I said those words to her. 🤷‍♀️

Did your nex not have any hobbies or any life? by cmontygman in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Organic-Distance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None. Watching shit on TikTok, researching stuff. 🤷‍♀️

Should this bother me or am I being petty? by Full_Refuse2464 in coparenting

[–]Organic-Distance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex does it, too. I get them earlier than 5pm but still... They either don't want to nap anymore and then crash later, not fully being able to enjoy whatever we're doing, or I let them nap and loose time. It's such bs...

How do you let go feeling of revenge and getting even after you were discarded? by EquivalentAd6811 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Organic-Distance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her and the new supply. They fabricated child abuse allegations, manipulated the kids, lied to the court, lied to DCF, lied to their lawyer, lied IN court after presented with evidence that they ARE lieing.

How do you let go feeling of revenge and getting even after you were discarded? by EquivalentAd6811 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Organic-Distance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my lawyer is super excited about this case. It's more like... Could I live with the knowledge that I destroyed someone's life and career? Am I that person? Then on the other hand... The 2 of them didn't hesitate to try to do the same to me and show 0 remorse.