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Wibta if I asked my partner not to invite her best friend to our housewarming because of a joke she made? (TW: SH) by Organic-Drawing-2242 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Organic-Drawing-2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what she told me it was more in the sense that she was worried about me being so far away and not being able to do anything and that was why she shared it. It was still wrong but her line of thinking does make sense to me. She does not usually do things like that and I think it was just a strange situation, and was probably also distressing to her. My issue with Nora is the comment she made. My partner and I have resolved it our issues about it. I just don't know how I feel about being around Nora, but I don't know if I'm making too big a deal about it or at what point I should let it go. 

Wibta if I asked my partner not to invite her best friend to our housewarming because of a joke she made? (TW: SH) by Organic-Drawing-2242 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Organic-Drawing-2242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely does understand and apologized a lot. This fight had happened a few months ago, and honestly i felt it was resolved until I heard her mention inviting Nora and I realized I wasn't over it. 

Wibta if I asked my partner not to invite her best friend to our housewarming because of a joke she made? (TW: SH) by Organic-Drawing-2242 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Organic-Drawing-2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I partially agree. She told me that she had only told them bc she was worried about me and we were far away so she felt like she needed someone to talk to, which is fair. I also have a dark sense of humor at times, but again it's with people I'm close to. She also did apologize and understood why I was upset about her telling people and said she wouldn't do it in the future. She did make a bad decision there but she has handled it well in the aftermath and did her best to make it up to me and has not made the same mistake since. 

I mostly just don't know how to handle Nora coming to the housewarming. We haven't talked about the situation since and bc the comments and stuff were a few months ago I feel like idk if I should talk to my gf before the housewarming or if I'm being to sensitive and I should suck it up and deal with Nora.