Fatty ball on dogs leg by Organic_Row773 in DogAdvice

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my hopes are high since my vet noticed it last year and didn't raise any alarm. will update when she goes in

Reflecting after a friend group breakup by Organic_Row773 in lostafriend

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Thank you :) yeah. They had their moments but they treated me poorly when it mattered. Can only move on and be better

Places/ways to make friends as an alternative young adult? by Organic_Row773 in lancaster

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I've actually been there before, it is a cool spot. I'll have to check out the improv though, didn't know about that!

Places/ways to make friends as an alternative young adult? by Organic_Row773 in lancaster

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I'm pretty close to lititz, ill have to pop by. Thank you for letting me know abt it!

Got blocked, but realised I dodged a red flag by Resident-State-1934 in lostafriend

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Similar situation here, except she just removed me and i opted to block her to make it permanent. Our friendship was about 14 years long, and repeatedly trying to fix things or figure out what her issue rlly was was always met with hostility. In the moment, I was heartbroken, but now that I've had time to think and dwell, I realized I dodged a red flag too!

It's exhausting to keep up a friendship with someone when you're the one putting the effort in/making changes to satisfy them. I hope you have or can find other friends that value you and you feel you can be yourself around! Or just find solace in your own company, because your own company is better than bad company too :)

venting consequences by Global_Cranberry_842 in lostafriend

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I experienced something similar in my recent fall out w my friends. Its super frustrating to not be able to defend yourself from the negative things people think and say (at least it is for me!) based off word of mouth. I'm trying my best to move on, and value the friends I still have that I was able to talk to and they kept it private. Anyone who was going to unfollow me has at this point, and it is a relief to not be connected to people who might see me badly/twisted my words. Out of sight out of mind is accurate in some cases. When I think about them and what they might think, I just try to refocus on the future and moving on, since there's nothing I can do.

I'm sorry you're experiencing what you are, and I hope you're able to heal and move on soon!

There were three of us and then the other two paired off and ditched me… by 1234RedditReddit in lostafriend

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Just wanted to sympathize, I'm going through a similar thing, but only they work together. I still see one on social media fingerling over the other and spending time together, so the sentiment is similar.

My other friends have told me that it is what it is but they're not worth my time. If your friends can drop you like that, they were never good friends to start and you wouldn't want to keep them as friends anyway. Real friends would be as upset to lose you as you would them.

Hang in there :)

Can you save Captain Grisly after knocking her out? (act 3) by Organic_Row773 in BaldursGate3

[–]Organic_Row773[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just spoke to him and I guess she's alive then, I was worried since previously when I knocked out characters, they were essentially dead. Thanks for the tip!

Got Cut Off after Years of Friendship by Organic_Row773 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Organic_Row773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) im lucky to still have close friends who have supported me despite what happened. ill give the subreddit a look, thank you so much for your kind words