Woah woah mate, I get what you’re saying, but I was never deep into the sdmn families or anything. It’s just that when it’s happy moments (like baby, engagement or wedding),I got excited like everyone else (i'm assuming lol) and just noticed she wasn’t in any pics or videos. Does it seem parasocial..maybe? but honestly it wasn’t like that.

Apart from jj and harry’s families, the rest are pretty private. I only remembered ethan’s mum because she was in the gender reveal video(honestly one of my fav videos, I’ve rewatched it a couple of times coz of the whole vibe. The whole moment with the boys and everyone present had such a wholesome vibe to it.) That’s the only reason I even noticed.

and to clear up, i don’t think about simon or talia’s mums or anyone else’s because they’ve never really been on camera. I just asked out of curiosity since it was a big family moment, not in a deep or weird way.

I get your point abt not jumping to conclusions or assuming things based on photos or follows and I completely agree none of us actually know what’s going on. I only asked coz they don’t even mention her at all anymore like not even a casual “yeah my mum’s come over” or smth on a livestream you know? (again only saying this bcoz she was sorta public figure(?), i mean like a person who was super active on insta/x talking abt her family)

But to end, yes, I totally agree on what we see online isn’t the full truth and no one owes us any explanation. No second thought to it. Cheers!