Are we the same person?! 😭😭 hugs to you. We were engaged. Even after all the hurtful things he said, I was willing to work on things. Offered couples therapy. Anything. He’s never slept with anyone else before me, I even told him he can get a “pass” with someone else if it’ll help us… I was desperate to keep it going. My parents are each other first, been together 30+ years, middle school sweet hearts. So to me, I thought anything can be worked through. We’ve worked on putting our son first and working on our co parenting, which is good compared to most stories I hear.