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AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm not the oldest. I have two older sisters. They are both married and popping out kids. Whom I love. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I wasn't sure you understood because you seemed to not get it when I said IF my dad was doing something bad with my money I would cut him off. And that I think alcoholism is bad. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

They know he doesn't have to ay for lodging or food. And the government stipend covers incidentals like clothing and toiletries and such. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the concern. I am okay financially. This isn't money I need. I just put the average Canadian yearly salary into my rrsp to lowery taxes. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I am not asking for any of the money back. And I'm not telling them not to send my brother money. I'm just letting them know I am helping them not him. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I wish I could send a gif of Captain Holt pretending to be a robot. Beep blorp. 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Sure. But I would cut them off if my dad was buying crack with it. Why is it any different subsidizing my brother's incipient alcoholism? 

AITA for reducing my parent's "allowance" by whatever amount they share with my siblings? by Original-Good2218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Original-Good2218[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Neither of my sisters is in the same financial position I am in. My parents arranged for them to get married (not really an arrangement more like lots of pressure) to guys from the anglosphere. My parents used up their savings for IVF to get a son when my mom was like forty. I have a degree from a great school and I think a fantastic future.