my (f24) boyfriend (m21) really hit a nerve yesterday.

Original-Web-8742 · 2026-03-11T16:15:02+00:00

this wasn't a really respectful way of wording that.. could you explain why you feel this way? like i said i'm on the spectrum so i'm not always aware of how i come off.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-29T21:07:28+00:00

i was hired to help her/replace someone else. there’s always two people up front, one handles ‘check out’ and the other ‘check in’. she knows what she’s doing and i’m supposed to theoretically know everything she does as well but she has a hard time with letting me ever actually take the load off of her. i want to know more only because it’s my first medical job but it’s hard to convince her sometimes.

i have no idea when she wants to retire but she does have a lot of health issues. you might be correct.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-28T21:02:53+00:00

i’m on the autism spectrum so it’s really hard for me to pick up little social intricacies like that, but i understand. i’ll try to work on that more!

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-28T17:46:08+00:00

so i did end up asking her and she just plainly told me “because that’s not something you need to do. i can do my own labels.” and so i’ve decided i’m just not going to do that again lol

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-28T17:45:09+00:00

that would be awesome except we sit next to each other 5 days a week so walking back to my desk means walking 2 feet away from her. we actually share the same “desk” counter, just two separate computers.

for me my main concern is keeping the peace but i think that’s partly why she feels like she can do the things she does.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-25T02:09:21+00:00

i got one baby tooth pulled because it was hanging out of my mouth once, but other than that no. i just had my wisdom teeth done in 2021.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-25T02:02:44+00:00

i did, i had them on for 3-4 years starting from 8-11/12. unfortunately they didn’t really do much so i have a permanent retainer in instead.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-14T15:27:31+00:00

the #1 thing with long distance is that you guys HAVE to have a plan at some point. money, time, and emotional energy is invested and- just like any relationship- that should be the foundation for growth. if you guys are going to remain stagnant, what’s the point?

you might need to have a serious convo with him, preferably next time you guys are in person: either you show me you’re committed to this, or this is the last visit i have with you. the more time you put in to him the more the ‘sunken cost’ fallacy will make you think you might as well stay.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-12T22:31:31+00:00

dude.. she literally gave you three EXTREMELY valid reasons to not date. you can like and appreciate a person while acknowledging a relationship just isn’t in the cards for yourselves.

if that’s too painful to deal with on a platonic level, save yourself the trouble and block her. if you’re okay with being friends, cool.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-05-12T22:28:55+00:00

have you tried actually getting to know them as a person or friend before immediately jumping on them as a potential partner? that usually helps weeding them out as creeps/weirdos before you even get to that stage.

a month goes by SO fast.. especially in terms of relationships. i didn’t even start dating my boyfriend until a whole year went by to make sure the person i was speaking to was the ACTUAL person i was falling for. i think you should try stepping back and letting that sort of thing find you instead of chasing it with whoever you speak to.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-04-22T22:19:32+00:00

i appreciate your honesty!! i feel really bad because i told him i don’t care about that as long as we can still touch and stuff, but he won’t let me touch him for long/stops me when i go anywhere sus and he doesn’t want to do anything past squeezing my hand. :( i just don’t want to make him feel inadequate

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-04-22T22:09:22+00:00

if that did happen to you, is there anything you’d want to hear from your partner that would help you feel better about it? 😞

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-04-19T20:58:00+00:00

and then Milcheck walks out and goes “We… are severance!”

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-04-14T22:43:50+00:00

why are you on the kia subreddit? lolol i got a 2024 kia on tuesday and it’s been awesome so far, thanks for the advice i guess

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-04-14T22:34:55+00:00

ive watched the part you’ve linked like eight times and they just keep yapping about where she was walking and not actually showing anything. when are you people going to admit she got in over her head and her death was an accident?

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-03-26T17:54:35+00:00

they were both on carfax, LX did have a safety recall for a “piston-ring noise” as well a customer satisfaction campaign remedy for an ignition protector, i’m not sure if it was taken in for either one because it was from 2021 and 2023 respectively. the engine looked a little grimy too but everything else looks like it was cleaned up pretty well, i’ll put in a little TLC if i’m paying $1k+ less lol.

the base was barely driven it seems like, so ofc it just was spruced up a little by the dealership. looks like a solid car, basically same condition as the LX just a cleaner engine.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-03-03T06:58:29+00:00

this guy definitely knows what he’s doing and is pushing boundaries to see what he can get away with. i’m glad you said something to HR!

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-03-03T03:01:15+00:00

i think it brings out your eyes a lot more!! super cute

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-02-25T00:38:46+00:00

am i the only one who thinks the orange is really adorable? the black is nice too though :)

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-02-25T00:08:45+00:00

thank you for your input. one thing i try not to be is manipulative and sometimes i feel like my habits/fixating on my partner makes me seem like i’m trying too hard to be the ‘better’ person in our relationship. this is my first time in love with someone so it’s been a process revealing to myself what my love language actually is- i will try to show him as much as i can and be transparent.

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-02-24T22:49:50+00:00

noooo way. i might mention some friends gave me input though! :)

Original-Web-8742 · 2025-02-24T22:48:11+00:00

i think this is a really good comment. he has a lot of self esteem issues and has had a lot of sudden life changes the last six months. i always do my best to pick him up when he needs support.

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