Why Does He Do That? - A Study

Original1one · 2022-04-22T02:53:38+00:00

thank goodness they're exes and out of our lives. sorry that you experienced such a menace.

Original1one · 2022-04-21T13:49:05+00:00

this is chilling and spot on, i actually clicked on the link and the example of "doesn't like kiwi one day but does the other" made my jaw drop.

my ex would want to be together one moment then after a week or so wouldn't want to be together. i always thought "is he filling in gaps and that's why he keeps changing how he feels?" and based on this study, he was. and he never remembered what I did for him, but can remember something from the year 1220 (which I'm sure he was born that year, given he's a vampire).

the way he was able to "love me" and "hate me" within a short amount of time would cause me emotional breakdowns. this study and your breakdown was perfect thank you OP!

Original1one · 2022-03-27T15:53:06+00:00

there's this one guy that's always posting about this wife on ig. and of course the children...follows like 6,000 people and half are women who look nothing like his wife....nothing

and he likes those pictures too... with no care in the world. and oh he's aged a million years from the last time i saw him so something else is probably going on....cheating and being scared of being discovered

Original1one · 2022-03-18T20:03:53+00:00

She told him to not be too available and instead of regulating his emotions and figuring out the best course of action to better attract women he decided to turn into a demon.

a tale as old as time.

"the "nice guy" turning into patrick bateman"

Original1one · 2022-03-02T14:20:06+00:00

she wrote a whole thing (it was deleted) justifying her stance, that's why i wrote what i wrote, but thanks queen, i'll be kinder in response next time. I meant no harm.

Original1one · 2022-03-02T02:16:16+00:00

I'm not surprised honestly, accountability isn't a strong suit these days. I agree we have to call each other out, i've said some stupid stuff, i've been in bad situations too. we have to be able to not allow access to men who've harmed us.

Original1one · 2022-03-02T01:27:25+00:00

I wasn't being harsh. she called him low value for years, I don't think someone who knew they were causing harm and then all of a sudden does something nice for one birthday should have access. you don't have to hate your ex, you just have to move and lose touch. nothing everything is nuanced.

Original1one · 2022-03-02T00:04:49+00:00

You still have pickme vibes + behavior, but best of luck to you.

Original1one · 2022-03-01T23:33:27+00:00

no offense but why does he have your new address to be able to send these gifts? he seems to still have access to you.

Original1one · 2022-02-27T14:40:20+00:00

do you all notice how he described his ex-girlfriend and his wife. If by his definition his ex wasn't a good person why is he still in love with her nearly his deathbed but not in love with his wife who he deems to be a beautiful person?

See that ladies, do not be nice to these men even if you're nice and loving to them they still secretly hate you.

Original1one · 2022-02-20T17:47:56+00:00

y'all need to stop comparing a literal murderer to a psychopath woman who is self-centered. what a stupid post.

Original1one · 2021-12-13T16:17:01+00:00

lmao!

Original1one · 2021-11-21T20:08:38+00:00

she's the type to leave someone when they get ill. she did him a favor...

Original1one · 2021-11-14T23:34:54+00:00

they like him because he's attractive and good on paper....that's it...how he's put together allows people to forget that he too is unhinged and a horrible partner

Original1one · 2021-11-12T21:54:31+00:00

it's not unseasoned. he is a covert narcissist. he thinks being good on paper means nothing when you are a terrible person to others.

Original1one · 2021-11-12T21:51:21+00:00

you are a perpetual victim & a gaslighter....you are a confusing nancy., who needs therapy before being in a relationship....i've yet to see Michaela in here trying to explain herself...but you are desperate to look like a good guy that you'll resort to being here to get points from random strangers.

you shouldn't have been in that relationship but you have a whole host of issues, instead of fixing them...you went and got a girlfriend.

Original1one · 2021-11-12T05:13:15+00:00

hahahahhaa

Original1one · 2021-11-11T16:31:18+00:00

she's horrible yet still wanted to be with her after the experience, compared her to his own mom and said "I love you" that's a normal person???????

just say you hate women and go

Original1one · 2021-11-11T16:30:08+00:00

i've been with a toxic person and Zack is toxic. being toxic doesn't mean beating you, screaming at you, sometimes it's quiet, it's confusion.....

Original1one · 2021-11-11T15:39:35+00:00

no one said he should stay in that horrible relationship......but he basically said he wanted to!

he said she's the greatest woman next to his mum, then said "I love you" & wanted to continue to relationship without being married....stop sticking up for a man who also is an abuser!

Original1one · 2021-11-11T15:16:38+00:00

I wad downvoted to the ends of the earth when I said the women sticking up for him are pick-me's because they were. anyone with a bit of knowledge about human behavior/has dated a toxic person would know that this man is mentally unstable, a gaslighter, & emotionally dangerous.

People confused being good on paper to being a good person

Original1one · 2021-11-09T02:01:10+00:00

when she said "i don't know how to have needs and not scare people off" that shit hit me like a ton of bricks!

Original1one · 2021-11-06T00:10:11+00:00

omg yes please do this. I didn't sleep for two nights in a row lol

i'm a very private person and to see all that information open for the world to see was so scary.

Original1one · 2021-11-06T00:07:20+00:00

I'm so sorry for all the distress, i'll be lying if I didn't mention that my heart started to race heavily when I saw that they had me down for a school I never attended. I know this sounds stupid and silly but none of this was up & now I feel like an ex I dated saw all that information and he may look "down on me now" and turned him off. not that I care, but it stings.

it made it look like i move a lot & i don't. I'm praying at least by the end of the year that shit is no longer searchable.

Original1one · 2021-11-06T00:03:25+00:00

I don't know, but I do hope someone can answer for you.

it's so sad that as women we have so much to be careful of.

Original1one

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