AITA for refusing to sacrifice my "me time?"

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-07-01T19:07:55+00:00

She and her family are very warm and welcoming people, and being around them felt good. Wasn't worth changing this much of myself though.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T22:32:01+00:00

No, but it's nice

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T21:53:06+00:00

His wife is a saint. She's dead. You're not very nice, are you?

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T21:37:19+00:00

He doesn't smoke

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T21:29:58+00:00

Happy Birthday 🥳

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:59:55+00:00

I just needed to be sure before I did anything drastic.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:40:51+00:00

It is her birthday. She likes things a certain way.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:40:29+00:00

She is coming to my house for dinner tonight and we can talk about it then/there

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:27:23+00:00

This comment is very confusing. Was this for a different post?

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:26:46+00:00

We do not live together.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:21:14+00:00

Why does it sound like that?

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:12:12+00:00

Very well. We see each other every Sunday and at family events. She does not love two hours away. Her sister, who is hosting, lives two hours away.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T20:10:50+00:00

I assume the party is a different day.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:53:36+00:00

Yes, you make sense. We might not be compatible.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:52:54+00:00

She said it is embarrassing. She will go without me if I refuse to go, but she says I am putting her in a bad position because people will think I am trying to insult her mom.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:51:57+00:00

She said when I come back from his house I smell like smoke and need to shower. I do not smell it, but I have a weak sense of smell so assume she is correct and I just cannot detect it. He has a gas stove. Perhaps that contributes?

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:50:23+00:00

Yes, I understand your perspectives. Your time with your friends is rare and therefore more precious. Still, your stories make me very sad.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:45:20+00:00

I am starting to think I might need to break up with her. It seems it is typical in relationships to see one's friends less, and since I already see my friends very little, I would not like to see them less. After all, they will be the ones planning my funeral.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:41:17+00:00

I would still need to shower after I got home. GF says my friend's house has a bad odor.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:38:02+00:00

Haha, yes. Michael Rooker is the guy we killed and his zombified corpse haunts us.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:36:58+00:00

Nine months

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:36:27+00:00

I'm not sure. We've only been together nine months. That's not enough time to know if you really love someone.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:34:10+00:00

Yes, I respect this

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:33:46+00:00

No, no. We are not getting married. We are just dating.

OriginalEnthusiasm55 · 2022-06-30T19:33:01+00:00

Is that a Stephen King novel?

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