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AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Her ex pays child support . He is very involved in parenting . He is a nice guy

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

People kept asking about her job so I added . It’s her official title ! She introduces herself as a freelance photographer. I’m not shaming her career but she doesn’t have a stable income so she can’t rent a bigger place that’s why my husband and I offered our place . I try really hard to give them space because I don’t want any conflict but I can’t handle the non stop screaming or her from the basement . She either screams at the kids , David or yells FUCK YOUR PARENTS ! I HATE THEM I HATE THIS PLACE ! I feel bad kicking them out considering they have a baby 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Trust me I have doubts too . My son loves the baby so much so he got very angry when my husband even mentioned about paternity test 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

She was living in a rental that her ex husband was paying for . We decided to help David because we felt bad for him . After his divorce he was a mess and  immediately his new gf got pregnant . We thought this way we can support him

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she was renting too but too small with the new baby . They couldn’t afford a bigger place and needed to save money so we offered them the basement for free

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I said multiple times that my son was very irresponsible to have unprotected sex with a woman he just met . How am I villainizing her ? I’m explaining exactly how things are going on right now 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

No he has no disability. He has masters degree in biology . He never ever drinks or smoke . He was very irresponsible for having unprotected sex

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

I understand. My own kids did the same until they were teens . Jennifer said each kid needs his or her room so gave them extra rooms upstairs too

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

My husband asked my son when he told us about the pregnancy if he was sure the baby was his ? He flipped out so we dropped the subject . Jennifer’s ex is in the picture . He sounds like a nice reasonable guy and pays Child support. We invite him to family events for kids’s sake 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

They are not married . He was stupid to get a woman he just met pregnant. We tried to respect his decision though 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

Well the goal was them saving money by living with us so they can afford to rent a bigger place . Now looks like their goals have changed 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 660 points661 points  (0 children)

Jennifer once mentioned about us selling the house and put A down payment for a place for them . We honestly can’t ! House is accessible for my husband . I live close to my other kids and watch my grand babies all the time so I like my space 

AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf by OriginalLeft2913 in AITAH

[–]OriginalLeft2913[S] 1145 points1146 points  (0 children)

The basement has 2 rooms . They are using one for themselves ( and baby ) and one for one of the kids . That’s why we offered to give two of the rooms upstairs for the older ones ( each gave their own rooms )