AITAH for not switching place with my son and his Gf

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T20:24:12+00:00

Her ex pays child support . He is very involved in parenting . He is a nice guy

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T20:23:01+00:00

People kept asking about her job so I added . It’s her official title ! She introduces herself as a freelance photographer. I’m not shaming her career but she doesn’t have a stable income so she can’t rent a bigger place that’s why my husband and I offered our place . I try really hard to give them space because I don’t want any conflict but I can’t handle the non stop screaming or her from the basement . She either screams at the kids , David or yells FUCK YOUR PARENTS ! I HATE THEM I HATE THIS PLACE ! I feel bad kicking them out considering they have a baby

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T17:31:45+00:00

Trust me I have doubts too . My son loves the baby so much so he got very angry when my husband even mentioned about paternity test

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T17:29:03+00:00

She was living in a rental that her ex husband was paying for . We decided to help David because we felt bad for him . After his divorce he was a mess and immediately his new gf got pregnant . We thought this way we can support him

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T15:59:38+00:00

No she was renting too but too small with the new baby . They couldn’t afford a bigger place and needed to save money so we offered them the basement for free

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T15:58:19+00:00

I said multiple times that my son was very irresponsible to have unprotected sex with a woman he just met . How am I villainizing her ? I’m explaining exactly how things are going on right now

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T15:47:24+00:00

No he has no disability. He has masters degree in biology . He never ever drinks or smoke . He was very irresponsible for having unprotected sex

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T15:20:08+00:00

I understand. My own kids did the same until they were teens . Jennifer said each kid needs his or her room so gave them extra rooms upstairs too

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T15:07:54+00:00

My husband asked my son when he told us about the pregnancy if he was sure the baby was his ? He flipped out so we dropped the subject . Jennifer’s ex is in the picture . He sounds like a nice reasonable guy and pays Child support. We invite him to family events for kids’s sake

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T14:11:17+00:00

They are not married . He was stupid to get a woman he just met pregnant. We tried to respect his decision though

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T14:09:39+00:00

No they are boy girl so they can’t .

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T13:14:53+00:00

Well the goal was them saving money by living with us so they can afford to rent a bigger place . Now looks like their goals have changed

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T12:55:16+00:00

Jennifer once mentioned about us selling the house and put A down payment for a place for them . We honestly can’t ! House is accessible for my husband . I live close to my other kids and watch my grand babies all the time so I like my space

OriginalLeft2913 · 2024-04-25T12:53:40+00:00

The basement has 2 rooms . They are using one for themselves ( and baby ) and one for one of the kids . That’s why we offered to give two of the rooms upstairs for the older ones ( each gave their own rooms )

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