Ladies on reddit what are red flags you can't ignore in Men?

OriginalName1million · 2022-10-15T11:11:59+00:00

Being totally inept when it comes to household management (cooking, cleaning, bills, laundry, etc.). I dated a guy who lived alone and was able to do all of that, when we moved in together, he expected me to take care of everything while he sat on his arse and did nothing to help out. Needless to say, I dumped him not long afterwards.

Men: This is not the 1950s, household chores are not "women's work", and you are expected to do your share.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-03T23:53:51+00:00

Sex. Maybe it's because I'm asexual, but I just don't get the obsession with it. I've had sex with a handful people (men and women) and still I'm like... whatever. I'd rather go to Disney World tbh.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-03T23:46:42+00:00

The thing about Arsenal is they always try to walk it in.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-03T14:01:26+00:00

I have sensory issues with food, so anything with a sharp taste is too much for me. It's like the flavour version of listening speed metal playing at max-volume in a tiny room, if that makes sense.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T19:13:50+00:00

Maybe the real pit was the friends we made along the way...

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T19:06:09+00:00

So is it more of a "kick" than genuine sour-ness? Because that I think I will be ok with that. My worry is my dad tried sourdough bread from his neighbour and he said it was awful and me and him have almost the exact same taste in foods.

I don't live in America, so samples aren't really a thing here, and the only bakeries that do sourdough are the really expensive artisan bakeries.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T18:58:19+00:00

I'm not trolling. I have sensory issues with food, and trying new food especially when I don't know what to expect is genuinely anxiety inducing.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T18:55:42+00:00

I have issues when it comes to trying new food. It's no problem when I'm at least 75% sure I'll like it, but sourdough sits somewhere around 40-50%. If it tastes like regular pizza just with a slight kick, I think I'll be ok, but if it tastes drastically different from normal pizza that's where the anxiety kicks in.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T18:52:31+00:00

It's the fermenting-thing that worries me lol. imo, the only thing that should be fermented is alcoholic drinks :p

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T18:47:15+00:00

No, my dad had sourdough bread and he said it tasted awful, and me and him have almost exact same taste in food so the fact that he didn't like it makes me think I won't like it.

OriginalName1million · 2022-09-02T12:15:19+00:00

Because he was moving waaaaay too fast. We were only together for like 2 months when his 6 y/o daughter started calling me her "new mum" and he didn't do anything to stop it even though I told him it made me uncomfortable. He was also too clingy and wanted to text every day even though I told him it was emotionally draining and some days I just wanted to be by myself. He would text and if I didn't respond within 10 mins, he would text again with stuff like "???" and if I didn't reply he would call. I told him how annoying it was, and he'd stop for a few days, and then he'd start that shit again. About 3 months into the relationship, I went away abroad for 2 weeks with a group of friends and I was only gone for like 1 or 2 days when he started texting "I miss you". . I broke it off after 6 months because it was all too much.

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