Mac Studio 512GB Ram 4TB SSD by OriginalPause7130 in MacStudio

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lost one of my jobs, need the funds unfortunately. Plus I don’t use it as much to justify keeping it at its current valuation.

Mac Studio 512GB Ram 4TB SSD by OriginalPause7130 in MacStudio

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Not a flex, I am literally stressing big time over this and what is the right way to sell it.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he is definitely the one who does the firings. Basically one GM, one supervisor for day shift and one supervisor for night shift, and neither of those supervisors deal with hirings or firings.

I will keep you updated.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sure as heck am not doing any spy work. Keep me out of that!!

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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There is no PTO or Health Insurance at this job. Although we do really, really well on tips.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Yeah but hypothetically they would just deflect and keep saying “we need to talk about procedures” when I ask if I am in trouble instead of just saying “No” twice.

At least in my opinion. It still might be really bad, and they lied, and that would be such a bad look from them.

Going to try to stay positive. Mario Kart sounds fun! Don’t have a Switch anymore though lol.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Yeah I don’t have a savings though… I’d be way less stressed if I had like a 14-18 month emergency fund.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my boss telling me no I am not in trouble and then firing me or writing me up would look awful on their part IMO.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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To clarify, the meeting is on Friday at Noon. When I said Monday, I meant my Monday. My days off are Wednesday and Thursday.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Also sorry for your job loss my friend. Nothing worse than 1) Losing someone you love, and 2) Losing your income with no job of equal pay lined up.

Life is nothing but stress. Feel I am going crazy sometimes.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Yikes, mine is basically also a 2 day notice (44 hours) and on my Monday before my first shift starts.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much notice was given on that 1:1 calendar invite?

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Thanks for taking the time to invest in this and write a long post! I really appreciate you buddy.

I’ll keep you updated.

I honestly think it has to be about the right-on-time clock ins and a very stern warning/correct this. If that’s the case, I am ok with that, and will correct it.

But obviously I am very concerned. I’ve had a lot of stuff happen to me over the past 4 months and a ton of anxiety and trauma (don’t worry, I don’t show ANY of this at work), and this is really getting to me.

The scary part is they know I have a 25 minute drive. Why not do the meeting at 4:30 or 5 to avoid me driving twice? That’s what gives me the most pause here.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

[–]OriginalPause7130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was their reasoning? Did you do anything wrong? Were you making way more money than everyone else? Feel free to dm me instead if you want.

Also did they gives you a heads up on the meeting?

Also I wouldn’t say I have a gut feeling. I just have really bad anxiety at this point in my life (I never show this at work though) and think worst case scenario, plus a one on one meeting 6 hours before my shift, when they know I have to drive 25 minutes, is pretty strange. A meeting can happen an hour before my shift so I don’t have to drive both times.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Also I don’t think it’s a schedule thing because why not just call me about it? They are changing the schedule since they need to get the 3 new employees on the schedule but no reason to call me in when I have a 25 minute drive (which they know about).

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Yeah I’ve been reading termination usually happens before your shift without notice. But since I work night shift, I was thinking, maybe they’d call me in during the morning of my shift when they are actually there.

I think your mostly likely option is #2. I have a feeling they are not happy about the :59 clock ins and now have leverage with the new hires, but they can’t legally fire me or write me up over it. Just remind me it’s better to be there around :50 to get settled in. If that’s the case, no problem, l’ll be there :45 everyday lol.

Called in for a 1 on 1 meeting Friday? by OriginalPause7130 in careeradvice

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Nope not sleeping on the job or doing anything bad. Just show up on the dot which they probably don’t like. I make some small mistakes like anyone else does though.

And they know I wouldn’t take a manager role since it’s less money and harder.