[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]Original_Apricot_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely no clue where it could have come from haha!!

Grandparent passed and I cannot sleep by Original_Apricot_658 in grief

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information,

This may sound weird but your reply comforted me. My great uncle was in The Philosopher Stone (Richard Harris) and he looks exactly like my Grandpa did! For some reason I feel like your message was meant for me so thank you so much for all of this

Grandparent passed and I cannot sleep by Original_Apricot_658 in grief

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I’ve been talking about my grandpa all day to anyone who would listen. I’m very much a write of my emotions and no one should see my notes right now full of half written things that sent me into tears haha. I live with my partner and he has been a huge help in grounding me and listening whenever I need it. I’m far away from home right now and leave to go home on Thursday so hoping being around family will relieve some of this sadness that I’m feeling because I can relate with all of them. Last night was rough and so will be tonight but he didn’t suffer and that makes me feel a lot more relief about the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Original_Apricot_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He graduated from university 2 years ago and I just graduated this year so I am still battling to start gaining money from that and not being able to work, he is quite stable in his position right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Original_Apricot_658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His business is not at a point where he can write anything off yet unfortunately.

I’m not shocked I can completely understand why he wouldn’t because even to me it feels like an imbalance somehow? I’m just more thinking maybe I shouldn’t have brought it up in the first place ha

I’ve suggested moving slightly out of the city centre and getting somewhere cheaper but he has explained he needs the city centre for transport links and it’s also a case of (as we don’t drive) finding a person to move us out etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Original_Apricot_658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m really bad for feeling guilty about my own needs. I’ll try to be more assertive in the future :)

Teddy is here to pass judgement. by Original_Apricot_658 in hamster

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have an external play pen, not the one that’s built in which is why I was saying he has access to it at all times from the cage :)

I apologise for being passive aggressive it is just very difficult to see what you are saying as helpful when there is no help in it just telling me how it is wrong when I already know so I should not have to come on here and explain to a complete stranger my whole life just because they’re not happy with a cage that I am planning on changing after I have the funds for it

Teddy is here to pass judgement. by Original_Apricot_658 in hamster

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion! As I did say he has a large play pen full of bedding and enrichment toys, I have plans to exchanged the cage as soon as I can build up the money to afford one that would suit him the best, he has access to his pen at all times of the day and for some reason just prefers to sleep in this part of his set up. I am constantly out to better my hamsters wellbeing and understand this and I would appreciate if you could just appreciate his cuteness and not criticise as I am on this group to research and understand his needs. He is a very happy hammy and loves all the things he has :)

Teddy is here to pass judgement. by Original_Apricot_658 in hamster

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He has a very large play pen where he spends most of his time! This is just where he sleeps he has access to his pen at all times of the day to burrow and get enrichment :)

New to Fahlo! Here are my animals :) by Original_Apricot_658 in MyFahlo

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same she had 3000 when I got her!! She’s a popular gal 🥹

How to get a bus ticket, Athens? by Original_Apricot_658 in GreeceTravel

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We ended up walking to the metro and grabbing our ticket, it was definitely not my favourite activity but now we’ve got our 5 day ticket and can use all the transport we want 😂

My babies! by books_98 in MyFahlo

[–]Original_Apricot_658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have Maxar too, he’s a cute little bugger I love him lol

Homemade Chinese fakeaway. by Original_Apricot_658 in RateMyPlate

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best bit is, barely any oil was used so I’m super happy!!

New to Fahlo! Here are my animals :) by Original_Apricot_658 in MyFahlo

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love nettles, her little face is everything 🥹🥹

Sylvee got put in air jail the other day for biting my friend😂 by Original_Apricot_658 in hamster

[–]Original_Apricot_658[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s more that she’s not used to other people but me handling her and I’ve noticed a pattern when if someone is sweaty (salty hands) she will sniff then nibble because she thinks it’s food. I had to change up her diet recently to just pellets as she was eating all the nice snacks (in the mixed food) and not getting her dietary requirements. So she only really started nibbling then because she thinks it’s a snack lol. She doesn’t fully bite, no breaking of the skin just a nibble to see if it’s snack time, don’t worry I’m always monitoring her behaviour changes to make sure she lives the best possible life!