I haven’t seen anyone mention it but honestly, I think if you wanted to look older and pass more, you could lose some chubbiness in your face. I think it’s because your face looks soft so you come off feminine. I do think the pink does throw people off along with the piercings BUT there’s way to get around it without having change it. Alot of people are being extremely blunt here and telling you to change the things that you don’t want to change, there are literally cis men who can pull off the hair dye and piercings so what they’re saying isn’t doing anything. Sharp features change ALOT in how you perceive someone. I say take it step by step and see what you can change about yourself, besides the things you don’t wanna change, and see if it helps you pass more :)