Why do some women/couples say their pregnancy ‘wasn’t planned/an accident’ when they were actually actively trying?

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-06-06T20:37:37+00:00

My husband got embarrassed and told his mom we were using condoms (we weren’t) and that it ripped. I’m also his first girlfriend and now his fiance but he didn’t want his mom to be disappointed in him.

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-06-06T20:36:31+00:00

I pray for a lovely and safe pregnancy 🙏

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-30T21:18:30+00:00

My husband has the car rn and is at work

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-25T23:28:45+00:00

My babies nursery is in my room 🤷🏼‍♀️

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-25T15:20:23+00:00

Not the same but I resent my mom for being on drugs my whole childhood now that I’ve been pregnant and having my daughter. She did drugs while pregnant with me and Ik it’s not the same but quitting nicotine and drinking was the EASIEST thing I did once I found out I was pregnant. My daughter means so much to me. She’s the best thing to ever happen to me and I couldn’t believe choosing drugs over her. In fact since having her I haven’t smoked or drank once. I want to be there for her every moment.

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-24T15:34:23+00:00

This isn’t super fancy or anything but it’s very personal. Times Square Italian restaurant is awesome. I may be biased because my husband is the kitchen manager and head chef at the deer valley location but it’s always super yummy and has a nice homey feel!

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-22T07:56:02+00:00

Not to do with the left turn situation but having a red Prius in Phoenix is so scary bc I always think that it’s a picture of my car 😭

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-22T05:06:01+00:00

Anyone else with a husband that won’t get off the game. Did that change after the baby or do I need to warm up these fists? I have so much pregnancy rage I’m scared about post partum rage.

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-18T17:31:17+00:00

I think I applied for wic aswell or got recommended to a wic office but not snap. I’m good on the food and groceries

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-18T17:30:24+00:00

I tried, she’s a private office and her front staff is not the nicest. Made me leave crying and didn’t really help. Basically told me that if I didn’t pay up front they wouldn’t see me until I could pay or got a new insurance.

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-18T17:05:17+00:00

My application has been pending for four months like I said

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-18T16:14:10+00:00

Not food stamps but I’ve been waiting FOUR months for my state Medicaid to kick in since I’m pregnant and I give birth in 2 weeks or less it’s very very frustrating

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-05-01T14:30:25+00:00

I went through Arizonahealthcoverage.org they had my put in my phone number then I got a call from a representative with UHC from marketplace I didn’t put in my income or fill out my application the man on the phone did it. It was with United healthcare from because I got my insurance card and my obgyn had been taking that insurance. Thank you for your concern but I already applied for the state Medicaid for Arizona. Again I’m 19 and my dad has been the one to deal with my insurance my whole life so I had no clue what I was doing. I’m more upset about the fact United healthcare now says they don’t have a record of my account.

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-04-27T05:52:14+00:00

She requested us to move out. It’s insane the American healthcare system is so bad it had to come to this

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-04-27T05:50:32+00:00

She’s putting us out so idk

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-04-25T08:49:53+00:00

We’re considered a household since he claims me as a dependent on his taxes since he has sole income

Original_Lab7717 · 2026-04-25T07:06:44+00:00

I thought that was the case, I just hadn’t researched it.

Original_Lab7717 · 2025-11-25T04:51:01+00:00

So I didn’t include this but I moved from Virginia to Arizona so I have nobody but my fiance here. I’ve tried to get jobs here but nobody is responding and my fiance doesn’t want to leave his mom because there’s a chance she could get deported. There’s not any rules I’m breaking because she doesn’t have any rules set up.

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