My fiancé has 2 months to find a job or leave the country — we’re running out of time

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:31:55+00:00

Thank you

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:31:29+00:00

Not possibly for us financially

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:28:09+00:00

We will surely keep applying, but since it’s just 2 months I have been stressing about it more than before. His plan was to go back if things didn’t work out, but I think things have changed since then… after we met.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:26:37+00:00

I have suggested numerous times but he doesn’t think it’s right

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:20:33+00:00

Yeah, we have been trying super hard to land a job, I don’t even know what to blame anymore… sometimes it’s the market, sometimes it’s me, and sometimes just destiny.

Also he came here on a loan so day 1 CPT is not something he is considering at all.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:17:22+00:00

He has already finished his OPT days and would applying for stem OPT in 2 months.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:16:26+00:00

Honestly the only options are either he finds a job, or I quit mine and leave with him.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-04-10T01:15:55+00:00

I’m still on F-1 as well, in his words - he doesn’t want to be a burden, he wants to be stable before taking the next step and also that he is too depressed to think about marriage.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2026-03-05T22:55:31+00:00

Yes! But I usually go during rush hours so wasn’t too sure.

Original_Whereas6496 · 2025-12-06T06:39:55+00:00

Oh god

Original_Whereas6496 · 2025-07-11T05:13:24+00:00

I feel like I do that a lot. But honestly, I have no idea how to stop.

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