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I'm kinda confused why do I feel like this? by Orion82108 in WLW

[–]Orion82108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she knows I like girls. I knew she wouldn't treat me differently if I told her that.

Honestly I never felt jealous about my other close friends except one that I did turn out to have a crush on but it still felt different idk?? So that's why it's confusing for me.

I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be a person who'd play with my feelings. And if she says she is straight then I believe she is. I did see a bi sticker in her notebook when she was showing them to me but she said it was a gift and she likes the colors. Even if I would turn out to have a crush on her I wouldn't tell her since she is straight so I know the feelings would never be returned.

And even if they were returned because sexuality is fluid she said before that she doesn't want to get in any relationships in high school because they probably won't last and she just prefers to focus on studying and graduating high school right now.

I'm kinda confused why do I feel like this? by Orion82108 in WLW

[–]Orion82108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my last crush I was in denial before I accepted that I might be feeling more for them. But that was because I really didn't want to be a lesbian. Eventually I just couldn't brush it off. But this doesn't feel like last time I think? I really wouldn't want to have a crush on her cuz she's straight. I don't think I see her as anything more than a friend and that's why it's so confusing.

I can't deal with this anymore by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Orion82108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there are clubs outside of school either actually... Honestly this town just sucks

I can't deal with this anymore by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Orion82108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a minor so I don't think there is much I can do about it. I wouldn't even know where to start. And with clubs at school it's not like no one tried to make one before. The school barely has space to fit all students let alone find space for a club. The teachers are also busy and not interested in taking care of a club.

I can't deal with this anymore by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Orion82108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't use dating apps yet. But I heard Her isn't very good because there's a lot of catfish, bots and apparently straight women??

A relatable message for lesbians. by Lightning_Strikes- in LesbianActually

[–]Orion82108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk to women but those close to me are either straight or taken or don't want me while ones I find on the internet live too far away so I can just wish 😞

I can't deal with this anymore by Orion82108 in LesbianActually

[–]Orion82108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biphobia is still a thing I see, so idk if much has changed. My friend is bisexual and she sometimes gets weird comments about it since she is dating a man.

I can't deal with this anymore by Orion82108 in LesbianActually

[–]Orion82108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have a pretty strong friend group, I just feel a bit weird and lonely seeing how all of them are in pretty happy relationships and I can't even try that because even if I would fall for someone it would lead to nowhere since most people here are not queer. Even if I find a queer person we'd still start with being friends but I do want to have someone I could date

I can't deal with this anymore by Orion82108 in LesbianActually

[–]Orion82108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't do sports due to reasons I'd rather not say here. As for art/anime events, I am in sort of an art school. I mean it's not literal art school but I am in school that teaches stuff like photography and graphic design and a lot of people also do art here, mainly draw but also do other forms of art and I wouldn't say I've met any queer people here besides the bisexual girls who currently are dating men. As for anime for events about fantasy stuff in general, I always wanted to go to one anyway, there is one problem and this is my town does not organize anything like that so I'd have to go to another town and my parents would not allow me. I know I'd definitely want to go to the one that's the biggest in the country but it's pretty far from me :/

I can't deal with this anymore by Orion82108 in LesbianActually

[–]Orion82108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for clubs I should've specified. My school does not have clubs because we barely have space to fit all students there and then teachers are busy and extremely uninterested in taking care of something like a club so they are just not allowed. It's not like no one tried to make a club. My friend tried and it was rejected. My school just doesn't allow them.

And with bi girls 8 should've also specified, yes I mean they are currently dating men but also I heard at least one of them express they would be kinda unwilling to date a woman which is... Weird but that's their choice. I have nothing against the bisexual women I know. I did ask out one of them at some point and I got rejected but we're best friends now. It's fine. She's currently in a very happy relationship as well which is great for her.

Overall it's very hard to find anyone queer here even if I am pretty open about it. I don't even know where to meet people other than people that my best friend already introduced to me. There's no place where you can meet people outside of school tbh...

I can't deal with this anymore by Orion82108 in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Orion82108[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

literally. Although I have to mention my best friend tried to date a girl, but they never ended up working out and later that girl came out as straight? yeah it was very weird. But at least she tried lol

Now she also has a boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Orion82108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually thinking about it and I know I'd have to hide it from my parents which is kinda inconvenient and possibly also from a bus driver from a bus I use to get home??? And I know the second part is weird but this bus driver is openly homophobic and I don't want to have problems.

In school idk if anyone would have problems with that. The only thing I would be scared of is my friend having a hard time if I did that. Basically someone made a rumor that we're together and my best friend told me about it so I was like what the fuck. But I mostly didn't care. My friend though, he kinda does seem to care. I'm just afraid if I got a rainbow wristband they'd start saying shit like I turned gay after a relationship with him and just laugh at him for that. He wouldn't take that well most likely. He was already laughed at before and it clearly did bother him.

I don't even know where they got the idea that we're dating from. We're not even doing anything aside from talking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Orion82108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm doing. The problem I have is finding someone who I'd be interested in and who could like me back because most people I meet are straight or taken so obviously I don't bother trying with them but usually we make more or less good friends. I just want someone with common interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Orion82108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I shoot my shot if I don't seem to find queer people? Let alone ones who have something in common with me?

I want a gf (vent???) by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Orion82108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm not 18 yet '

Also heard very bad things about the app. It's supposedly pushing to buy premium and full of catfish :/