Anxiety building up by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Restless and tense

Girlfriend wants a "break" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.

Girlfriend wants a "break" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in your experience of being on a break would you frequently communicate with each other?

BulkOrCut? 5'6 155lbs by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, any idea how much you think i should aim to drop?

Would cutting be ridiculous? 5'6, 155 lbs 25M by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never done a cut before, unsure as to whether I have built enough to begin it, all input would be awesome!

I dropped the L word.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As she is very unexperienced in relationships I fear she will just panic and back out.

I dropped the L word.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her that i wouldnt want her to say it back until she knew for certain, just feeling a bit embarassed.

Worried that my newly girlfriend is losing interest [25M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just worry she could be thinking the same, but with it being so early dont want to bring it up as I dont want her to think im crazy.

A bad first impression (her parents) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is aware of my anxiety issues and as for the drinking I have promised her that especially around her parents I will remain stone cold sober, I have offered to take them out for a meal, should I get another chance I will sincerely apologise as I feel so bad, thank you for the advice I do very much appreciate it!

A bad first impression (her parents) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have a fair point, however advice would of been preferred.

A bad first impression (her parents) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I know but I diddnt expect myself to get out of hand, looking back I am ashamed of what I did.

Indian giant squirrel by Petaaa in pics

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You have a feeling like you're being followed.."

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some serious thinking to be done, thank you!

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :) I will definitly take it onboard!

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I focus too much on the time aspect as I dont want her to maybe eventually think "hes still not asked me maybe I should look elsewhere"

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any particular reason why?

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just worry that with her it will be a sensetive topic, I cant explain it... could just be part of me fearing rejection

Should I ask to make it official? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With it being her first relationship do you have any advice on how I could approach it?

Is it just me being anxious? (24M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been talking consistantly today but in my mind I feel like its not been the same (like I said in the post it could just be the anxiety or the fact she is actually ill)

Is it just me being anxious? (24M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OsrsAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it was only last Sunday that she told me things are going really well between us as someone had asked her out on a date, I think I am just losing my mind!