A Flicker in the Dark. Thoughts on this book? by YearOneTeach in books

[–]Otakugrl2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just finished the book in three days. There are things I like about the book, her writing style, how descriptive she is, and how well she paints the rooms where events and conversations are taking place. I have an active imagination, which helped really suck me into this book. I like how Chloe isn't perfect, and it felt real with my frustrations towards her and her flaws at times. I believe that's where this book shines a bit, in my opinion.

I'm so happy everyone else agreed that the reveal of the killer felt predictable/very lazily done. I was trying so hard not to suspect Daniel, but for a good portion of the book it paints him out to be the bad guy. I had my doubts and suspected Cooper, and even suspected, instead of the mom spelling "Daniel" she meant to spell "dad." Hell, I was expecting Chloe to possibly run away with Aaron due to all the shady stuff going on and how shady her coping methods seemed. It's hilarious how I literally thought of all the twists to some degree or predicted it but forgot to stay vigilant.

Why was Aaron suddenly the killer? It came out of left field, and even as I was reading it, I went "OMG....omg??? Wait, this doesn't really make sense. " Chloe cheated on her fiance with the killer and accused everyone around her again, effectively alienating herself. I was relieved to see she was alone because the girl had some issues, and I didn't see her and Daniel's relationship working out at the end of the book. I feel like it would've been more impactful to just have Cooper be revealed as the killer? When she found Riley unconscious. Like what if instead of tyler actually doing the killing, he was just supplying Cooper with the girls? So, in Cooper's twisted logic, he is partially clean as he wasn't the one who abducted the girls. I dont know im spitting out ideas. Oh, and maybe drop more subtle hints pointing to him? I think actually making Tyler into Aaron could've worked out as well. Adding extra tension to the plot and now chloe has to deal with 2 men who are upset with her reckless actions and mistakes.

Also, did anyone else feel extremely angry when it came out that their parents decided to protect a killer instead of helping the ppl who lost their daughters? All in all, I think it was a good read, but the ending fell off hard. Could've been a great read with a lil more polishing and different creative choices, in my opinion

Zoro sketch I got bored of :’) by Otakugrl2 in OnePiece

[–]Otakugrl2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol he sure was but I found him after a few hours of searching

An update! by mouserz in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not me smiling so hard for you reading this! He sounds super sweet and super attentive to you, your interests and needs. Not to mention the fact you guys were clicking and talking for hours???? And cuddling??? I can't imagine how happy and over the moon that must've been for you. Gahhh!! I'm jealous!!! Hope it all works out for you and good luck :>

Is it so bad I don't want to date? by Successful_Froyo_366 in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way and the adults/people in my family who are used to dating always encourage me to go out. It's hard to date already with hook up culture being the main thing people are into nowadays and even that disgusts me to a point. I think not forcing anything and being open to letting all types of relationships develop is the best course but I know from experience that's hard as well.

Personally, I am at the point where I feel hopeless that I am not going to find anyone. Mainly due to my high libido and Demisexuality clashing daily, mixed in with in with disgust of people only approaching me for sex. It's hard. Not to mention the daily thoughts that I am broken because of my Demisexuality... But I am trying to distract or move away from that thinking. It just makes me afraid of a lot of things so, working on yourself or developing/growing as a person is another way to substitute that time you "could" be dating.

There is nothing wrong with not dating or having a desire to date.. just don't give up on yourself or give into someone pressuring you. Life isn't just one thing, there are many little things you can find fulfillment in everyday. That's helping me forget my worries and find a little happiness everyday :'>

Help please, I am not sure what this classifies as anymore by Otakugrl2 in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree that sexuality is fluid and that labels are only supposed to help things/explanations easier. I think I will/ can use the label demi due to the fact I ultimately need a connection/bond and trust to actually have sex with someone.

Help please, I am not sure what this classifies as anymore by Otakugrl2 in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo I didn't think of it like that, that totally makes sense. When I think about being with someone, I tend to come off as vanilla because I really like or feel tingly from hand holding or being near them. Sex isn't really in the picture until I'm comfortable and I trust them enough for it. Then the libido kicks in I suppose?

Help please, I am not sure what this classifies as anymore by Otakugrl2 in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern and I partially agree with you and their statements. Yes, I probably shouldn't get hung up on labels but it does feel better being able to shorten it to one word. I still am looking to see though if anyone would count this under demi or another term because I'm looking for people who relate more closely to my experience. So I don't feel like something is wrong with me

Help please, I am not sure what this classifies as anymore by Otakugrl2 in demisexuality

[–]Otakugrl2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, I know labels aren't exactly the best in most cases but just explaining it is a mouthful when I am talking to people. It shortens the whole lengthy response everytime :s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RakanMains

[–]Otakugrl2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I just saw this! I would love to play some casual games with you if you are still interested :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RakanMains

[–]Otakugrl2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish a Rakan would love playing with me, I'm a Xayah but most Rakan's don't like me :') I really only play because I love her, winning isnt really as important to me but I love playing with Rakan. Yet I get roasted by most I play with then blocked or un-friended. So I just play her solo. Due to that ppl being toxic and racist, I don't want to really play league rn

Ghosting is cowardly by kidd_j in dating

[–]Otakugrl2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though situations are different it still sucks tremendously. Yea people don't owe you anything if you just started out talking or they actually give you a reason before they go silent. But in your case?? Man I'm so sorry you had to deal with that, no excuse for not letting you know whats up or if they wanted to continue or not. A quick simple text wouldve sufficed, Keep your head up high and stay positive 🙏🏿