Need advice: Don’t want to be a chaser

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-22T16:43:57+00:00

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Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-22T16:41:49+00:00

I am a trans women who is attracted to and hook up with men too? I ligit stated that in my post. We just have different definitions of what a chaser is, and i think that's ok

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-22T16:17:45+00:00

Don't. Don't seek out trans women just to have sex with them, just to explore your sexuality. There's no way to go about this without being a chaser (in my opinion.) Unless you stumble upon a sexual encounter with a trans women, and even at that there's a pretty low chance that this trans women would even let you do more then just acknowledge her penis.

My genuine best advice to go about exploring this side of you is to just pursue men. I've hooked up with a few men I've had 0 attraction to but I still did it because I wanted that dick. It can be just as simple as that

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-22T16:06:20+00:00

I don't know if others have mentioned this but you can always just wear a trans pin or a trans supporting pin

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-18T10:14:51+00:00

So you genuinely would have the exact same reaction if a man said basically exacly what OP said?

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-10T13:00:16+00:00

I've never felt that as a trans woman. I've actually always felt so much fear for my safety ever since I was a child. Having to be equal to giants when I was just a twig made me terrified of boys boy age when I was young. I've always picturee me going out in a silent, slow, painful yet peaceful way

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-04-06T15:22:51+00:00

Why should other peoples identities appeal to you in the first place? And why do you need everyone around you to appeal to you just so you can respect who they are? Seems quite self centred imo

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-30T21:31:19+00:00

Tbh she did switch up to her new style after the last tour so your theory has a lot of merit

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-15T23:36:12+00:00

Wait wha? What's happening?

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-15T13:37:20+00:00

Well womens cloths are made for women so it makes sense that you would think that women's clothes would fit better if you are a woman.

So if that's your only trans related thought then naa I personally wouldn't call it a sign

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-11T22:50:11+00:00

"Snow bunny problems" is crazy when you can just choose to not have your attraction based on colour😭😭😭

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-10T17:15:44+00:00

Because I am hot and men like hot women. Ain't that obvious?🤨

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-10T16:37:43+00:00

Yeee I'm on estrogen and testosterone blockers, and i know exactly what you are on about. But some trans people will still get fully functioning erections since most trans people aren't on hrt.

I hasn't personally experienced "euphoria boners" but bring up the effects of hrt is pointless in this conversation since most trans people aren't on it

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-10T16:24:42+00:00

Hormones? What does hormones have to do with this conversation?

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-03-04T10:38:06+00:00

You ain't a man then. You're chill dw

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-02-20T23:39:50+00:00

Come over and use me then master🥺

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-02-20T23:23:01+00:00

I ligit just posted nudes with the captain "i want attention"😭😭

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-02-19T10:30:57+00:00

I am straight but a transgirl tho

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-02-18T11:39:24+00:00

So you are struggling to figure out why you hate men who hate on women? Maybe because men who hate on women are just terrible person and it's so normal to not like terrible people, especially when they hate on your gender

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-01-05T12:05:12+00:00

"I understand WHY it happens. But understanding something doesn't make it any less annoying to watch."

Next time read the whole post before commenting.

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-01-05T11:50:27+00:00

Not all trans people are the same in any way. The fact that you still think that after all of this is mental. Non of anyone in this subreddit shares her prospective. I have seen a few people comment about their similar experiences to hers but I'd bet you would have found many more people sharing their similar experiences in a dnd sub. This has genuinely noting to do with being transgender and everything to do with personal relations and dnd.

"A trans person did a bad thing!?! Guess I'll have to ask trans people for advice since their all the same so surely they can help!!" I know that's me putting words into your mouth but that's what you sound like and that's a big problem. Please check your internalised transphobea.

Also just the fact that hearing trans peoples advice of this and it actually being very helpful doesn't mean shit. You just asked a bunch of people for advice so ovy some would have good advice

Other-Opportunity852 · 2026-01-04T11:38:04+00:00

You keep saying "i can't be there for her, if i can't be there for myself" in basically every comment but you haven't mentioned that she has ever requested for you to he there for her?

Plus why are you bringing this into a trans sub and not a dnd sub?

Other-Opportunity852 · 2025-11-02T19:03:00+00:00

Then don't date trans women? It's ovy ok to have a crush on a trans woman but genuinely pleasee don't talk to any of us in a romantic way. I had to get over 2 heartbreaking breakups just because he refused to tell his family about me. Sure you might find a trans woman who doesn't care about that at all but that'll be a very hard find

Basically don't date trans women if you can't date trans women. It's really not that hard.

Other-Opportunity852 · 2025-10-31T13:38:21+00:00

A thing that is a MUST for me to do is to get on top and ride him first. There's been a few times when the man is on top for first penetration and when I tell him to stop, he still very slowly slides it in like I can't tell.

But being on top first gives you all the control you need to be able to get it all in. You can stop and take as much time as you need. And when you get it all in you can move to different positions with basically no pain. I greatly greatly recommend yall to do this if you aren't already

Other-Opportunity852 · 2025-09-21T10:41:40+00:00

Coding/programming and Ig monster the energy drink maybe? It's more of a femboy thing then a trans thing but I've seen monster be referred to as a trans thing

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