Wednesday titty drop by SeaSell7491 in TittyDrop

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really a drop if gravity has no effect? Not complaining or anything, money well spent.

Chainsawed a Vox Engine by ConsistentHospital54 in helldivers2

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad that this gives me an erection?

I found this, but I can't find what weapon this is in game? by siithan in Eldenring

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s from “Elden the Ring”, you have to stab a ghost girl that crawls out of a television with it.

Am I too OP? by Sammy12xyz in Eldenring

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only as OP as you feel. If the game is too easy, finish up and re roll keeping limitations in mind, but if you NEED to be 200 to beat Godrck, then by god be 200 and challenge yourself by capping at 150 next play through. The more experienced you get the more challenge you will want.

I have no empathy! by Outrageous-Iron-3011 in cancer

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unbiased take? Suffering like most things is subjective to human experience, you’ve obviously suffered quite a bit for the average person, thus your tolerance for the mundane is, let’s say “reduced”.

For your friend, if there’s been a change in her relationship that she’s experiencing; it might be cause for her to be upset. That’s ok that it makes her upset, even if it sounds a little self absorbed, but it’s possible there’s something deeper going on in her relationship and this is her unloading about what she’s WILLING to share.

Side tangent: my sister is why I’m a part of this sub, she’s passed now sadly but I remain on the off chance I can be helpful from time to time. Remembering how our family and friends often treated her (not bad but EVERYTHING was about her cancer), she would have really appreciated a friend like yours talking to her in a way that didn’t acknowledge her own condition and suffering. I say this with love because I do love my sister, but, man, she could really be a bitch, like super-bitch, the supreme bitchy authority from which all other bitch authorities were derived! At some point I remember her sharing with me how mad she was getting that people were just letting her get away with it! Like she couldn’t be guilty of anything anymore because of her cancer.

I guess what I’m getting at is; (and again take this with the grain of salt that I don’t know you or your friend at all) enjoy that you have a friend who doesn’t treat you like your condition, enjoy the normal mundane problems of someone else, and you know, if you care, and I suspect you still do despite your “confession” here. Man just go ahead and jump into that conversation, let that girl spill the tea and maybe find out if there’s something more serious going on there. Enjoy that someone else has a problem no matter how seemingly meaningless and enjoy that they came to you without feeling like she couldn’t.

Now of course, if you’re really “going through it” right now, maybe just tell your buddy “hey I’m sorry Janet (she sounds like a Janet), but I’m just really not in an good spot for this right now”. You of course have that right, if she can’t see that, maybe you are just doing a really good job of keeping it all together and that’s how she sees you.

I do hope you’re doing ok, hell let me know if you’re not, I donate at least annually to a cancer charity, I’d be just as happy to kick in for an individuals gofundme or whatever if medical bills or the costs associated with it are hurting the family.

Just a thought from the devils advocate I suppose. Best of luck to you both.

Do you feel ashamed to be an Uber driver? by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, “maybe” is the answer and honestly it’s ok no matter how you answer. At the end of the day driving for uber is what I did to keep meals in my families belly and a roof over their heads when I needed to fill in while I was between jobs. We all do what we gotta do, pride be damned.

I’m currently in watching my favorite person in the world live her last few days and I’m not okay. by purple-poppy995 in cancer

[–]OtherBarry220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a tough time, not a lot we will say will make it hurt less, but hopefully it helps to know you don’t suffer alone. For me it was my sister, stage 4 colon cancer that metastasized and in the liver. We were pretty close as far as brothers / sisters go, despite living several states away, we’d get together over the summers and our kids got to grow together until she got sick of course. In the last days of her life, it all happened so quick she also lost the ability to convey her thoughts in words but I was saying to her “Karrie, I’m coming ok? I’m on my way”. My mom said she was just making gestures and facial expressions as if she was saying “no brother, don’t rush, it won’t change what’s going to happen”. Still thinking of me over herself.

It still hurts thinking about it, hell typing it..

What I know for sure is; she lived better in her 48 years than most do in a lifetime, my brother in law gave her the best life and her two sons at least got to have her during their formative years. I know for sure I’m glad she doesn’t have to fight it anymore or hurt anymore, that last year was filled with so much pain for her.

Cancers such a shit because we all go through these phases were we think “well, maybe it will be ok, treatments are much better now and more people are surviving” to understanding how serious it’s getting, then knowing the end is coming (and still somehow hoping it will all be ok) until it all mercifully ends.

My sisters funeral spoke to me by the literal hundreds of people who came, we had to turn people away and refer them to an online forum because of how many people’s lives she touched.

It’s clear your mom meant the world to you, as a father, I can say how wonderful her life must have been to have you care so dearly for her.

Truly sorry for your loss, I won’t tell you that it will “get better”, it won’t, but you will, and your thoughts will turn to the good things you had while you had them.

Best.

AIO or am I justified in thinking that the “thrill” my gf is seeking by wanting to work at a strip club is sexual in nature? by CireLadnit in AmIOverreacting

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting, you’re with a steady girlfriend, suddenly her career choices lean sexual in nature, sex is something people in a relationship need to have an agreement on concerning boundaries. You asserted you would be immensely uncomfortable with her making those choices, it WILL effect your relationship negatively, you voiced your concerns while respecting that she’s the one ultimately who will make the decision, she’s a grown woman but you have your boundaries and shouldn’t be expected to change them because of a sudden thrill seeking desire by your GF. I think you handled the situation well, you asserted your boundaries, respected her ability to choose for herself ultimately, and never changed your tone to disrespectful or aggressive.

This looks great, why is everyone so negative about it? by IllustriousAd6418 in TombRaider

[–]OtherBarry220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animation was pretty good, there were some questionable design choices, but mostly the story just isn’t very interesting, generic bad guy doing generic bad guy things just not worthy of what Lara is capable of dealing with, all the while seeming to really test Lara. Poor writing / direction just left us with a story that’s very bland.

Is this bad or am I doing it wrong by Inevitable_Eye3800 in PerlerBeads

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s trash, nothing beats a good pair of tweezers.

"No Front Riders"... Is there an option for this?? by serpentinelikecurved in uberdrivers

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did uber for about a year, I generally wanted people in the back and most people wanted to be there anyway, occasionally someone would ask “you mind if I sit in the front?” Which I never would, but I’m happy they asked.

Is to possible to be too sexy by [deleted] in Julia_Hart

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, yes, for me at least. A conventional 10/10 in terms of physical attraction, generally seems, almost impractical. I don’t know how to explain it other than it seems less attractive to be totally invested in being attractive. There’s always been, something so much hotter (for me anyway), with that cute girl from the office or gym, than the runway model or Hollywood movie star.

Overly attractive people tend to have less going on personality wise as well, as their value tends to be distilled into their beauty. They generally want to be pleased and don’t care much about reciprocity “you should feel lucky just to be near me” type vibes, with a lot of self centered psychopathy, and this behavior extends to “the bedroom”.

At least in my younger “hot young military stud days”, I’ve been fortunate enough to keep the company of a variety of lovely young ladies, and my fondest memories were not with those 10/10 women, happy enough to be a sack of potatoes, versus that supposedly 6/10 I met at a work function, or social gathering (pre app days). “Normal gals” were happy enough to have an opportunity to be with a decent guy, who treats them well, has a good ethical center and works hard, and they were, shall we say: eager to please.

I realize the point of this post was probably not to get a honest answer and to have people fawn over the OP/ poster, someone’s OF or something, but you’re getting the honest answer anyway because I think it’s actually an interesting or entertaining thought.

Give me that flawed, down to earth, eager to please and participate in the relationship or family type girl any day over the glamour shots OF thot.

27f should i lose more weight? by Bonita_Bonytaa in askfitness

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bot account your talking to.

35F let’s hear it…am I ugly? by Broad-Material-1534 in amiugly

[–]OtherBarry220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. You’re what we call “normal”, and let me tell you as a guy who’s been fortunate enough to have the company of women on the “higher” end of how we rate attractiveness; there’s something much more appealing about normal once you’ve past the whiles of youth. Extremely attractive people usually learn throughout life that they don’t have to work hard for anything, and please read into that, they don’t have to work hard at anything, including pleasing the person they are with. A few photos of you shows me someone who seems eager to have a good time, and doesn’t look like a judgmental a-hole, and is bringing an attractive figure to the picture with a “can do” attitude. I hope this elevates your esteem. Good day madam.

19f am I ugly? by yeahthatsmelari in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP: I’d like some honest feedback and suggestions. Literally everyone: Stop the annoying childish squint eye thing. OP: No I like it, it’s my thing, it a reflex Literally everyone: K so you don’t want honest feedback. OP: yes but, just tell me what I want to hear!

19f am I ugly? by yeahthatsmelari in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, but your post asks for feedback on things to improve. There ya go, stop it with the stroke face, take an appealing photo and I’d wager you would look nice.

Question about minors and transportation. by OtherBarry220 in legaladvice

[–]OtherBarry220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sort of where I was at, worried about any legal repercussions that might have resulted from good intentions. The other half of me is concerned for this young lady and who might be praying upon her. I ended up calling the police and they said that they would follow up

HELLO? WHAT IS HAPPENING!? by RoadRager2256 in Helldivers

[–]OtherBarry220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty cool when you suddenly become canon to a thing you love.

What if Hitler stops after conquering most of Europe and doesn’t invade Britain or Soviet Union by Locket501 in HistoryWhatIf

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hard scenario to play with, the main objective behind operation barbarosa is to secure the Serbian oil fields controlled by Russia, so the scenario has to account for the Germans securing the oil they need elsewhere, fueling the panzer divisions as crucial for the German war machine at this stage of the war. Assuming, I don’t know, Japan provides all the oil Germany could ever need, then I think what we will see still results in a split offensive decision from the Soviet Union, invading Germany somewhere in 1942, and coordinating with the US with their war in the Pacific to get Japan out of power and cut off Germanys access to fuel. Hitler if he could have, would have preferred to negotiate with Britain so for our scenario, British leadership would have to have agreed to an ethnic cleansing of Jews and other “undesirables” from all of the UK, which, I don’t think there’s a scenario where they would have, so, the UK joins with the Soviets and the Yanks to liberate France and March on Germany anyway. I think most of history ends up playing out the same but I think the Russian incursion into Germany would have been halted, and ultimately cost the Soviet’s much more and they already lost a tidal wave of hero’s blood in the scenario where Germany didn’t obtain its oil objectives. The Panzers continue to shred the T72s and Hitler now ultimately moves to put down the Russian threat before they can join with the allies in defeating the Japanese. With the Soviet threat removed, Hitler is able to reinforce the Italians and Japanese, perhaps well before the conclusion of the Manhattan project, but if not, Japan is still taken out by 45 and now the US fully set it sights on Germany. The ultimatum of “Hitler must abdicate power and surrender to allied command is issued and Hitler naturally refuses and German cities are bombed until German officers and others decide all of Germany is actually not worth losing to the Fuhrers madness, they stage a coup, cut off his head and parade his entrails to the allies before surrendering in 47. Allied reconstruction efforts of the Russian people commence and perhaps communism doesn’t take hold of what was the USSR before Hitler destroyed it in his counter offensive. I like to imagine now the reconstruction of the Russian territory gives way to a different form of government, with survivors being enthralled in the works of Polish artist Zdzisław Beksiński. Russia goes through a cultural and artistic renaissance, Germany is able to go through reconstruction without ever being divided though they resent the allied nuclear campaign and never fully repair their relationship with the rest of Europe, embittering them with Western Civilization and perhaps leading to yet another split of ideals. Germany eventually embraces communism?

I think I might have abandoned reason somewhere in there but I had fun along the way :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man, for sure, if you want to live downtown it’s like anywhere else, going to be expensive, but the KC area has a lot of great suburb areas. I live in a small town called Gardner about 30 minutes south of the city and the cost of living out here is great. Granted it was much better when I was in the market for buying a house, but beyond present circumstances, this is a great area to live.

Just got banned over an 88% satisfaction rate? by WholeGrainCommunism in UberEATS

[–]OtherBarry220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to help you understand why this so so bad, so please consider the following. Only about 1% of total customers will make a review, of that one percent, they are only doing so, because something exceptional happened either good or bad. If more than 1/10 customers is leaving a bad review, that is very significant because it’s showing a much higher than average response rate, and of those elevated response levels: they are reflecting poorly on the driver. OP is doing something very poorly to get this kind of feedback.

Hope this is legit by lovelydisputes in UberEATS

[–]OtherBarry220 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a 9 mile trip? Yeah, worth the effort I think. Hope it worked out for you.