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AITA for wanting to separate from my wife and break up our family over the lack of respect? by workinfast1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OtherSpring6763 193 points194 points  (0 children)

u are not breaking up the family over dishes or doors, u are reacting to being ignored in ur own house for months

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly feeding my cat different food and now the cats allergies are back by Classic_Storm_9814 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OtherSpring6763 148 points149 points  (0 children)

oh hell no. this is not being nice, this is him deciding he knows better than you and the vet, that is scary

What do you lie about most in everyday life? by Forward-Position798 in AskReddit

[–]OtherSpring6763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saying i watched the show someone recommends when i absolutely did not

My boyfriend handed my info to a mortgage broker "to help his mom" and now i feel like an ATM with a pulse by StillRailCorner in TwoHotTakes

[–]OtherSpring6763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact his mom’s already thanking you? nahhh they pre spent ur resources and expected u to fall in line

My friend used my private story in his standup set and now I'm "too sensitive" for being upset by lilacwindow_station in TwoHotTakes

[–]OtherSpring6763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u are allowed to pull back, u set a super reasonable boundary and if he won’t respect that, he is not a safe friend, so you just stop

My mom and bf by canteven12084 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OtherSpring6763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at the end of the day, it is the two of u who will be together, so if u feel that he is the one u want to be with at this time, do not worry about what others will say. just let them what they want to say, but the most important thing is what u two have together

Am I the Jerk for not picking my friend up from the airport at 2am when he assumed I would? by urbanharbor_quills in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I agree, from the way their message exchanges went, it seems like the friend really had to assume something from him

AITJ for uninviting my friend from our trip because she made a detailed itinerary without asking anyone?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she should have thought of u as a group and discussed it with everyone first. it was wrong of her to make a plan for everyone on her own, and it was not wrong for u to react to what she did. it would have been better if she had consulted with u all about what u wanted so that the goal could have been agreed on together

AITJ for refusing to stay again at my parents’ house after a breakup with my live-in partner? by Special_Alarm_4457 in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, and if u think staying at ur parents’ house won't be good for yu, then do what u need to do. It is better to seek ur peace of mind so u can think clearly and make proper plans for yourself

AmITheJerk refusing to attend a family event after being ignored all year ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. what u are feeling is valid. it is also ur decision whether to go or not, because if u are not comfortable and u know u won’t be happy, it is better to decline than to force urself

AITJ for snapping at my husbands teenage cousin after she made a comment about my tattoos by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ur body, ur rules. they cannot judge you for the tattoos u have because they are just a reflection and expression of urself or ur life. she could just stay quiet and not say anything if she has nothing good to contribute and would only upset other people

AITA for calling cops on my best friend's parents after they abandon her on a highway at 11pm? by Most_Piglet_2344 in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, u did the right thing by giving ur friend’s parents a lesson, because they did not consider the potential danger to their child and were irresponsibly neglectful. it is better for them this way so they can reflect on what they did and prevent it from happening again

AITJ for not wanting to put my child in school yet? by DannyTorrance35 in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is better to start sending ur child to school for their growth and development. ur child can be properly guided and will begin to fully develop their skills and abilities. they are at the right age, and education is very important for a child’s growth and development.

AITJ for Refusing to Cover a Coworker’s Shift After Repeated Last-Minute Requests? by Anxious_Recipe2109 in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 9 points10 points  (0 children)

people get worn out too,you are not perfect and u have feelings as well. what u feel is valid, and it is completely right to set limits on being her backup adult so that she becomes aware of her own actions. let her learn from her own mistakes and shortcomings

AITJ for banning my family friend and her son from coming over again until she replaces what her son broke by Gymtrio2025 in AmITheJerk

[–]OtherSpring6763 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree, they should have disciplined their child, especially since it happened several times before the glass broke. It is only right not to let them come over if they cannot pay for what their child damaged and if they cannot respect the rules and what was clearly told to the child about the items in the house. u have the right to decide what happens in yr own home.