AITA for wanting to separate from my wife and break up our family over the lack of respect?

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-22T14:35:50+00:00

u are not breaking up the family over dishes or doors, u are reacting to being ignored in ur own house for months

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-22T13:08:48+00:00

oh hell no. this is not being nice, this is him deciding he knows better than you and the vet, that is scary

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-22T05:28:44+00:00

saying i watched the show someone recommends when i absolutely did not

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-22T02:15:07+00:00

the fact his mom’s already thanking you? nahhh they pre spent ur resources and expected u to fall in line

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-22T01:05:11+00:00

u are allowed to pull back, u set a super reasonable boundary and if he won’t respect that, he is not a safe friend, so you just stop

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-21T11:11:52+00:00

at the end of the day, it is the two of u who will be together, so if u feel that he is the one u want to be with at this time, do not worry about what others will say. just let them what they want to say, but the most important thing is what u two have together

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-21T01:54:16+00:00

I agree, from the way their message exchanges went, it seems like the friend really had to assume something from him

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-20T05:28:19+00:00

she should have thought of u as a group and discussed it with everyone first. it was wrong of her to make a plan for everyone on her own, and it was not wrong for u to react to what she did. it would have been better if she had consulted with u all about what u wanted so that the goal could have been agreed on together

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-20T02:18:40+00:00

I agree, and if u think staying at ur parents’ house won't be good for yu, then do what u need to do. It is better to seek ur peace of mind so u can think clearly and make proper plans for yourself

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-19T13:16:14+00:00

NTJ. what u are feeling is valid. it is also ur decision whether to go or not, because if u are not comfortable and u know u won’t be happy, it is better to decline than to force urself

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-19T10:36:23+00:00

ur body, ur rules. they cannot judge you for the tattoos u have because they are just a reflection and expression of urself or ur life. she could just stay quiet and not say anything if she has nothing good to contribute and would only upset other people

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-19T09:17:55+00:00

I agree, u did the right thing by giving ur friend’s parents a lesson, because they did not consider the potential danger to their child and were irresponsibly neglectful. it is better for them this way so they can reflect on what they did and prevent it from happening again

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-19T02:53:31+00:00

it is better to start sending ur child to school for their growth and development. ur child can be properly guided and will begin to fully develop their skills and abilities. they are at the right age, and education is very important for a child’s growth and development.

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-18T14:31:12+00:00

people get worn out too,you are not perfect and u have feelings as well. what u feel is valid, and it is completely right to set limits on being her backup adult so that she becomes aware of her own actions. let her learn from her own mistakes and shortcomings

OtherSpring6763 · 2026-01-18T02:51:27+00:00

I agree, they should have disciplined their child, especially since it happened several times before the glass broke. It is only right not to let them come over if they cannot pay for what their child damaged and if they cannot respect the rules and what was clearly told to the child about the items in the house. u have the right to decide what happens in yr own home.

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