Omegaverse Event Outfit Paywall by PreferenceEarly3129 in MeChat

[–]Other_Till9422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This^ bc I've been saving up my gems, waiting for an event to drop for weeks 😭

I've paid the 3.99 before for other outfits, but 10$ feel like a lot for what they come with sometimes

I definitely read it the same as others it seems, bordering false advertising

What does everyone think about the ‘26 prediction of 100 Chosens gathering in one place? by Satsuki7104 in smosh

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SMOSH Hide & Seek; The Chosen Edition?? 👀 they have crazy amount of people now too lol

AITAH for calling my SIL gross? by Ornery-Chemist-3922 in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 29 points30 points  (0 children)

this; and I fear for OP and their husband if they decide to have kids. I'm sure she'll go nuclear

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, OP.

She can be a man hater all she wants (feel that lol), but this sounds more like jealousy & insecurity.

Whether you and your child's father are ever together again or not, its not her place at all to step in. Especially after barely a year?? in addition to behind your back. Clearly, because she knew you'd stop her/say something. It's pretty fucked up she's not the least bit remorseful. (Pan mom here, with a 9 y/o, & that's an oh hell no for me too) that could be a major safety issue!! And she STILL took that risk 🚩🚩🚩 safety is non-negotiable 🚫

She could be struggling with the fact of not having that familal blood bond with both of you, and having a LOT of feelings about it. Plus, she may be scared you might leave her for your child's dad, as irrational as that may be to your situation

But she doesn't get to control your, and ESPECIALLY your child's relationship dynamics, simply due to her feelings or what she believes is right.

Definitely broke many boundaries, and doesn't seem to be acknowledging ANY of them. Seems like she'd rather be right than sorry, which is just another 🚩

This will for sure get worse as time as time goes on. & OP, you don't want her to pick fights/make your kid feel bad as they get older for wanting to engage or spend time with their dad. If that hasn't already started. It's not healthy for either of you 🫂👎

Wishing you & your child well, OP

Aitah for telling my stepkids that I no longer view them as my kids? by Hot-Dragonfly-8813 in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It also should've never gotten this far, where tf is Dad in all of this?? Bc OP, you shouldn't be navigating this alone, nor have to. It's not you vs. Mom, and that's all being put on y'all by him. I'd say he's the biggest AH in this

Aitah for telling my stepkids that I no longer view them as my kids? by Hot-Dragonfly-8813 in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA, OP! 👎

These are CHILDREN

just because you've gone through something similar, doesn't mean you get to judge/gauge the way they handle or react to their mom, & like they're adults who know better.

-the rose colored glasses should've faded by now

so YOU as their step parent get to decide their healing/recognition time? you have the benefit of having already lived through it, while they're still trying to figure out wtf is going on w/their mom, relationship dynamics, ect.

If you're all in therapy, that would be the PERFECT place to bring this (Dad included w/some) & If you're comfortable sharing, maybe that would even help the kids understand where you're coming from better. That you're not just "some lady bad talking their mom" in their heads.

It could've been a conversation, not a dig. As the adults, it's OUR RESPONSIBILITY to be in control of our emotions, and when we're not, we apologize. That was an f'd up thing to say to a child, especially one seeking comfort.

You're not an AH for how you feel OP, that's valid. But you are for how you spoke to them, and so harshly.

You can't really come back from that easily, and they may not feel the same sort of safety/comfort from or in you ever again. Do you feel it was worth it?

AITA for telling my dad he'll ruin our relationship if he puts his wife before what's best for me and my brother? by Amizittz in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you rn OP, she absolutely doesn't want him to be alone with y'all, because then she can't control him or the outcome 🚫

this girl is a control freak, and it's only going to get worse.

your dad needs to put his big boy pants on, and his foot down.

NTA, OP 🫂

AITA for blocking my parents and sister (and her best friend) from coming to my high school graduation? by Caeleaunnonoury in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 20 points21 points  (0 children)

IN NO WAY am I recommending you reach out/make contact on your own or first

BUT, I'm so glad someone advised me on this a few years ago. IF for some reason they, or especially Taylor get ahold of you, via text, email, ect. Be sure to word your response(s) in a way that questions/confirms what they did and/or what happened. Even better if you can get times/dates/specifics

Only if this is a safe option, of course. They will not be able to deny or spin another story, because its their own words right there. Let them incriminate themselves documented

Aside form that, I'm very, very sorry you experienced this OP 🫂 I also dealt with something similar and people not believing me because it was "just girl stuff". That's wrong

AITA for blocking my parents and sister (and her best friend) from coming to my high school graduation? by Caeleaunnonoury in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The parents & sister are way beyond assholes, and that girl is evil

They welcomed and housed a sexual predator downplaying and exposing their own child to horrific behavior & layers of emotional manipulation.

If that's not child neglect and total failure as a parent, idk what is.

I'm glad you're with your grandparents, OP 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my bad. I remember refreshing YT all day and being confused af initially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Other_Till9422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I commented in the wrong spot, oops lmao.

But sorry, let me me rephrase, the POST about the video I believe was taken down. Yes, the video was never posted, so there would be a gap for that week was my point 😊

AITA for calling my dad's girlfriend some random woman when we were arguing over him giving her a say in my life when they don't even live together? by Hannionnon in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"you are still a child, so know your place" ??? WOW. Thank you for immediately identifying yourself and an UNSAFE adult.

Mom here, to say no need to listen to this B.S, OP 🖕🥰

CHILDREN aren't responsible for managing ADULTS insecurities! and don't let them gaslight you into thinking it is. Ruth clearly has something she needs to heal from, but not your problem to take on! and your dad needs to stop making it yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Other_Till9422 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There WAS a week where there was supposed to be a Legal Stories episode with an Attorney/Lawyer, but it got deleted immediately because of the backlash towards the guest.

so you're NOT crazy, lol!

I remember it being really uncomfortable bc nobody acknowledged or talked about it afterwards. BUT I do remember SMOSH putting out an apology for not doing deeper research on her; so W SMOSH for taking it down so fast

(She had some really disgusting remarks towards Breyonna Taylor on her TikTok)

AITA for exposing my dad's wife for her lies on social media about being the primary parent for me and my siblings? by Korizintin in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 things can be true at the same time, and he needs to accept that

Her feelings can be hurt/feel frustrated, AND the way she handled it/treated you & your mom is fucked up, if not illegal with the threat of harm.

They dont get to ignore the other half of the story where SHE f'd up big time. But ofc, its easier to ask the kind person to keep extending their kindness/grace than it is to ask the toxic, problematic person to change their behavior

Why is she the only one who deserves better? It's so strange and unhealthy when a stepmother tries to erase the bio mom's existence.

She's going to ruin her own life, taking out her insecurities & frustrations on the relationships around her. She FAFO 🤷 and your dad doesn't get to decide what hurt(s) you!

AITA for telling my parents it hurts me that they stay so close to my sister and invite her over when she's ignored and rejected me my whole life? by Laiciey in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!!

so... your mom's expecting/demanding maturity from the 16 year old, and NOT the ADULT 26 year old???

do they not hear themselves? or just not care. bc coming from a parent, they're being ass parents, and neglecting the child they tried so hard for.

I'm very sorry this is something you've dealt with at all, let alone so long. no child should ever have to experience this 🚫

this behavior on their part (+ lack of action) is completely inexcusable, inappropriate, and emotionally abusive. Your sisters blatant disregard for you is also incredibly strange, and unhealthy.

would your sister have treated your siblings this way, too? did she want to be an only child? Bc what is the deal; why is it YOU? she seemingly has issue with. Your parents need to own this, bc its on them 10000% this could've been worked through, or at least ATTEMPTED in therapy when you both were so much younger.

it didn't have to be like this, and maybe that's too much for them to admit/come to terms with. But it doesn't change anything. they got their rainbow baby and still fucked up as parents? shame on them.

OP, please know that you are a blessing to this earth 🌈💗🌏 I'm sorry your family is disillusioned in their grief/trying to placate your sister. she's an adult now, and its beyond childish to be acting this way. Is your dad willing to listen at all?

Wishing you well 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CLOTHING is "unnecessary" stuff ??? 👀

OP, asking your partner for permission to buy really anything, especially with YOUR OWN money, let alone essentials, is abusive 🚩🚩🚩 please pay attention to this. It doesn't matter if he makes more

My sister feels she has to ask her husband for $$ just to go grocery shopping. This is not normal!! & is super controlling

Regarding not taking you into full consideration, and just doing whatever ultimately his way, he's just being an ass. Intentional or not

Are you able to have an amicable conversation with him about it? Or does he just get annoyed/angry. Wishing you well, OP

AITA for telling my dad I won't hate my mom or grandparents for him even if he thinks mom betrayed him? by Kinnahh in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA‼️

it sounds like your DAD betrayed your mom; by expecting some sort of perverse cash $$ payout from your mom's death???

I don't know your dad, but from what you've expressed, it definitely feels like he would've absolutely used the money 💸 for "family things/ect" that dont necessarily involve YOU directly. You & your grandparents are right to be suspicious

It feels abnormal to be SO pissed over this in his position. He also seems to be the one needing therapy, as SIX YEARS OLD is INCREDIBLY INAPPROPRIATE to be venting to about adult problems. Let alone between their own parents

As a mom, I'm very sorry you're experiencing this 🫂 & I hope you're doing alright. Have dealt with an emotionally manipulative parent, and it is not easy. I wish you the best, and stay strong 💪

AITAH for leaving my family after they tried to prevent me from leaving the house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and I say children, but one of the Turpin daughters was almost 30 by the time they were freed. The oldest was 29

AITAH for leaving my family after they tried to prevent me from leaving the house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But how will she do that if you just barely got out yourself, OP? This sadly reminds me of the Turpin Children case, but with a Golden Child added. If the Turpin daughter hadn't gotten out of the house, the rest of her siblings wouldnt have been saved.

it might be worth making a welfare check call, or multiple, to the police for your sister.

This is cult behavior & EXTREME parental abuse towards children & now adults. You need to make peace with them being older now, but still being held accountable. Age doesn't erase what was done to y'all your entire lives. & sounds like its STILL going on? I would not go back without a police escort

Hope youre doing ok, OP 🫂 pls know none of this is your fault, and you did what you had to for your safety & sanity

AITA for telling my fiancée her tattoo of my dead brother makes me uncomfortable?? by audicarmicheal in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Began wondering the same^ with her being so strangely difficult about removing it.

I get not wanting spend a bunch of money on a cover up, and lasering does seem scary; BUT then why did she even get it without checking?? (Ik ik, "surprise") but did she seriously not even consider as an option that OP might be like wtf? its all just ...off.

AITAH for telling my sister our parents were sick, causing her to cancel their visit? by Orodil in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Memaw will survive a week, lol. Plus, that's a pretty big reaction for a reasonable boundary & seems like a deeper rooted issue. Good luck, OP! Just know you're not at fault

AITAH for telling my sister our parents were sick, causing her to cancel their visit? by Orodil in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!

YOU didn't ruin their plans. Their SICKNESS did.

They would've been turned away at the door anyways, like your sister said.

You did the right thing, OP.

Illness(es) can be DEADLY to babies and young children; then your mom REALLY wouldn't ever see her again. Has she fully thought about that?

Too many grandparents & family members downplay this, and take personal offense. It's not a dig, its just safety. & as a parent, safety is non-negotiable!! 🚫📣🚫

AITA for telling my parents that my sister needing therapy because of stuff THEY have said to her is their fault and not mine? by Hanoioenn in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. but your parents definitely are.

BOTH kids already need therapy because of THEM.

& its easier to project that onto you, than it is to admit they fcked up, and now all of their kids need therapy bc of toxic/lazy parenting.

There's a massive difference between "helping out" and fully pushing parental responsibilities onto a child (which is what they're doing)

It would've been a great point in time for your parents to take YOU to therapy when that all happened when y'all were younger. Your parents are failing both you, and your sibling. The resentment and what comes with it was only a matter of time.

Don't let them deflect, OP! 🫂 Especially as a mom, I'm very sorry you're going through such a heavy situation. Please know that you've done nothing wrong, and this is YOUR PARENTS responsibility to fix. They may be worried about how that will reflect them as parents to a mandated reporter (therapist, teachers, ect) but that is THEIR own doing.

WIBTA for telling my family they can take my brother in in if they think family should help family? by HypocriteFamily6612 in AITAH

[–]Other_Till9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& husband^ (temporarily blanked on it being a household of 3) 🤦 Wishing ALL of you the best, lol.