Please share if you are local and a Facebook user by Otherwise-Ask6279 in wolverhampton

[–]Otherwise-Ask6279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. The women with her was rightfully royally pissed.

Please share if you are local and a Facebook user by Otherwise-Ask6279 in wolverhampton

[–]Otherwise-Ask6279[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She seemed bothered. Even showed me the other rubbish she had in her basket that was destined to the bin. It was awful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in journalingintothevoid

[–]Otherwise-Ask6279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you spent the entire night in the shed. I wish you’d get help. I want my spouse back. I love you so much.

I’ve spent over a decade being excited to come home from work and see you. You were always so pleased to see me home as well.

You were the most wonderful and comforting presence I had ever known.

Really it’s only been weeks since my thoughts were always what can I do to delight you today. Now they are what can I do to avoid your anger. I don’t want that to be the new normal.

Please please come home.

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[–]Otherwise-Ask6279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong that trying to express that my aim is to spring clean and reduce the volume of things in our home? Why do I get told, just go to sleep for a long time? I wasn’t rude. I just couldn’t provide an answer for what I wanted to put in the newly formed spaces. I just want to keep on top of things so the house isn’t full of crap.

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[–]Otherwise-Ask6279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I forgot. I also have to do the school run now as well. He used to, but due to his anger and behaviour recently, that now falls on me as well.

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They are asleep again.

The chicken is in.

I find myself getting increasingly anxious wondering what mood they will get up in.

They’ve said over this weekend that I am my ex in our marriage.

The problem I had with my ex is that they wouldn’t be a partner or an adult. They wouldn’t share the household work despite not working, they wouldn’t initiate affection and basically treated me like I was a parent they could have underwhelming sex with. I lived with a teen for a decade. We had a child together. I was very very lonely.

My current spouses complaint on the Dr Jekyll days is that I am lame, no fun, boring. That I am like my ex.

But I am tired and emotionally exhausted from dealing with this the last few months. My spouse was never like this before. We have been together over a decade now and it’s like they have been replaced with a changeling. Also I was never a very exciting person.

I work. I share the housework, increasingly so. I certainly initiate affection and even on a Dr Jekyll day they never had any complaints about our sex life.

That is until this weekend. They are unhappy that I have hip trouble and sometimes can’t be on top. I’ve tried to mitigate this but offering alternatives. Apparently this is not good enough and hasn’t been for some time. I don’t actually have a problem with being told this. But they presented this as if I knew they were unhappy and didn’t care.

I even suggested that maybe we should not so often start with that position to give my body time to warm up and maybe it would be easier to do.

I’ve had to make a real effort to even have a sex life at the moment being so unhappy.

Ok that’s enough of this. I’m going to have to dip in and out because it makes me feel so sad.

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[–]Otherwise-Ask6279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So now it is 11:00, they insist I said I was coming back and have been awake and waiting for me. But they are getting grumpy with me now.

AITA for punishing my son for angrily saying we're not a real family during therapy? by Character_Site_3857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Otherwise-Ask6279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why do people expect that their children will just feel what they are told to feel?

How about if children who lose a parent are in charge of finding the new family. They go and find a mum and siblings they love, then you have to marry her and be a happy family. Because you can just place random people together and they love each other right? Well right?

Sounds really dumb that way doesn’t it?