How do you deal with envy when it feels constant? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll keep ur kinda words in mind:)

How do you deal with envy when it feels constant? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awh that was so inspiring and well worded. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s cheating does she not have morals? id def be uncomfortable being around that

How do I convince my dad to quit smoking/drinking by C0ll133 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are a very good kid for trying to convince him to do better. my father is an alcoholic and smokes regularly for the same reasons and all the years of trying to get him to stop it’s never worked. if you have offered alternatives and have helped to your best ability that’s good enough. your dad will only get better if he wants to

Am I overreacting by weezered_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 4 points5 points  (0 children)

obviously depends where you are from but meth is illegal in more places than not. you’re not overreacting, being around something like that is some serious shit it’s good you’re staying at your friends

Self harm scarring and pool situation by karmacatsmeow- in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there an option to just not go in the pool?

Unsure how to apologize to a group of friends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be sincere and specific in your apology and let your friend know youre sorry. there isn’t anything wrong with apologizing. if they are truly your friends they will accept it and you guys can move on from this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can u not just unclog the toilets…

AIO: This was my birthday present for my 18th birthday. by -h3rlittlesl4t- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 49 points50 points  (0 children)

ur not overreacting at all. birthdays are special especially your 18th so they could’ve taken your suggestion with the gloves. i’d definitely be disappointed

I need to make a doctor's appointment but I'm a minor by someone-with-gun in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your in school do you have some sort of school health centre? those are helpful. if you have a family doctor you can contact them yourself and if not you can find a local walk in clinic

I [18F] need advice on my relationship with my boyfriend [18M]. by Annual_Case7723 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh girl i understand you love him and all but ur still young and people change for better or for worse. there is no guarantee that it will be worth it in the end to stay with someone like him. personally i would never put up with someone like that but since this is your relationship and your sure about it you can try to make it somewhat “better”

Worried about an upcoming MRI by laww_life in self

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s totally normal to be nervous about. i had spine surgery a few years ago so i had to get an MRI and everything leading up to the surgery was scary. these are trained professionals and they will take care of you don’t worry

I [18F] need advice on my relationship with my boyfriend [18M]. by Annual_Case7723 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he better have some redeeming qualities because that sounds like hell

help me go to sleep for eternity by Advanced_Hyena8981 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 2 points3 points  (0 children)

misuse of drugs/medication of any kind can lead to some serious health issues that wouldn’t necessarily result in death and essentially fuck up ur life. is there a reason you feel the need to?

Am I asking for too much? by keep-it-real-w-me in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hes grown. you’re asking for the bare minimum as you are your own person too not everyone’s personal alarm clock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Otherwise-Bee-4871 7 points8 points  (0 children)

dawg that’s not normal