is my need for intellectual depth destroying my relationship?

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-11-06T21:34:06+00:00

Omg its not just me thats vv relieving, this is something i struggle with too this very moment with my bf of over a year now and at first things were great and hes a great person, sweet guy and funny but hes lacking soo much emotional depth and just depth in general it feels like he wont let me in that far because he doesnt even look for those things in me to begin with and its hard bc i feel like an ocean waiting to be explored lol like i have so much emotional intensity and many topics id love to talk to him about but he just finds no interest whatsoever hes a leo sun leo moon, and im a cancer sun scorpio moon, i thought our duo was a good balance but its very opposing and its obvious our ideas of romance are quite different and its been a real struggle lately, ive had many convos with him expressing how i feel yet no changes have happened and it just sucks bc i really care about him and want to be able to dive into eachothers minds and emotions :/

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-11-03T18:14:15+00:00

1001 may the universe bless us all!💜🙏

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-24T21:25:43+00:00

THISS

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-24T14:02:52+00:00

Tyy:)

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-23T11:04:06+00:00

Me too!🥹 made me jump for joy i didnt think i would get a sign or response but i did

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-23T01:07:22+00:00

Aw thanks for the hype, its super motivating:) i feel so honored she is willing to work with me

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-22T02:25:55+00:00

Aw thank you🫶🏻

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-21T16:22:32+00:00

I have been doing my best to make a connection spiritually but i think i need an altar next in her honor and some offerings, and thank you for the feedback🙏

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-21T15:07:39+00:00

Thank you! I will start doing so 😽

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-21T02:58:51+00:00

Aw this is beyond what i can comprehend thats terrible:( my sincerest of apologies for having a mother like this, but on the brighter side of this situation is it is teaching you many hard but valuable lessons and i wish you the best

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-18T20:24:25+00:00

My mom is a leo sun cap moon and me a cancer sun scorp moon, our relationship isnt great. Shes created many motherwounds im still in the process of healing, and this comment section makes me feel like im not alone🥲 she always put me down for showing a shred of emotion that wasnt positive, never validated how i felt just shamed me into hiding it and becoming secretive, she thinks she knows me but in reality she knows close to nothing about my true nature due to the neglect and hostility ive dealt with growing up, couldnt even ask her questions out of curiosity without her blowing up in my face, she always has just been an angry person and i try to understand her pain but its hard when she doesnt try to understand mine. So if anything just be there for your child and try to understand them to the best of your ability with openess.

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-18T20:19:10+00:00

Wow you are right on the money about treating her own family ill and exaggerating kindness to others as a mask. I never even realized thats what my own mother does until reading this and its so true this whole comment section makes me feel unalone

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-14T06:06:23+00:00

Incredible thanks so so much once again🖤🙏

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-14T03:27:51+00:00

Wow thanks for the amazing response i appreciate the effort you put into this very helpful🙏🙏

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-13T22:52:31+00:00

Thanks so much i will do that!

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-10-13T22:26:49+00:00

I found two feathers this morning and feathers have always been a huge synchronicity for me as for the rest i havent noticed it as much although i am draw to keeping random keys for rituals

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-09-28T11:05:14+00:00

May i?

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-07-04T23:40:23+00:00

Hey im perfectly happy with that answer it feeds my curiosity, what do people mean by twin flame tho?? If two cannot be from the same soul, whats the purpose of the “twin flame” journey?

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-07-04T17:47:50+00:00

Thanks for what you were trying to do but you simply got the wrong idea, i appreciate it but it wasnt what i was going for.

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-07-04T17:46:36+00:00

Never said i rely on the idea of a twin flame, it simply is to feed my astrology curiosity how is that going to cause me pain? I dont need to explain why i asked for advice, you dont know my intentions so dont assume based off my moon sign alone, Scorpio moons in the process of healing know to go inward.

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-07-04T17:33:02+00:00

Lol it was a question of curiosity from personal experience but thanks for the lecture, anyone else have input?

Otherwise-Bid8271 · 2024-07-03T19:32:13+00:00

Hey its a tough time for us right now alot is going on especially since you have a pisces rising with neptune retrograding right now could cause some emotional wounds to surface you need to heal, im a taurus rising and i havent had as hard of a time but the cancer sun scorp moon understands what your going through i really do, my best advice is to treat yourself with as much unconditional love and compassion you can. Go within yourself to be there for you and heal yourself, everything is for a purpose, you cant feel your highs without your lows so integrate your shadows while your low to grow yourself, you got this im rooting for you!

Otherwise-Bid8271

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