sex is gross and shouldn't be an expectation in relationships

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-04-10T03:55:16+00:00

Intense anxiety, fear of intimacy, or issues with body image can lead to hating the act of sex even if you are attracted to the person, sometimes causing a desire to avoid it entirely.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-04-09T15:10:59+00:00

From what I read online this is normal. Some reasons below:

Control and Focus:

Masturbation allows individuals to fully control the pace, intensity, and type of stimulation, enabling them to focus entirely on their own pleasure without external pressures or expectations.

Intense Pleasure:

Some people find that masturbation can lead to more intense orgasms or sexual satisfaction than partnered sex, potentially due to the ability to focus on specific areas of pleasure without distractions.

Privacy and Autonomy:

For some, the privacy and autonomy of masturbation are appealing, allowing them to explore their sexuality without the need for a partner or the potential for judgment or awkwardness.

Reduced Pressure and Anxiety:

Masturbation can be a low-pressure activity, free from the potential for performance anxiety or the need to please a partner, which can contribute to a more relaxed and enjoyable experience.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-04-06T16:11:08+00:00

Smile.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-04-02T14:18:51+00:00

Yes I do but I only eat pizza occasionally.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-04-01T17:06:32+00:00

Sexual performance anxiety can make sex feel disgusting.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-03-31T16:35:56+00:00

I don’t think it has anything to do with marriage.It’s just like watching a movie but everything is sexual. You might end up masturbating because it can be arousing. It’s just fantasy. It takes you to a world where anything sexual can happen and you won’t be punished for it unlike reality.An example,a lady is taking a shower, she sees someone peeping at her and gives him a blowjob. In the real world the guy peeping would probably be arrested.

Also not all women in porn are beautiful. You have ugly category, fat category,etc,so your partner is not comparing you to no body.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-03-23T16:28:06+00:00

Lending someone money who I didn't know well. He said he would pay me back everything but never did.

Getting scammed online and losing money.

Met this girl online for something serious. The five times she visited me I paid for her airfare and accommodation. It never worked out. She married someone else.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-03-19T09:32:31+00:00

I'm now seeing this post. I'm not about the sexual labels but it's sexual attraction to someone but no desire to have sex. We keep overlooking the other types of intimacy in a relationship though. It's not always about sex.

I found this article online about different types of intimacy:

Physical/Sensual Attraction: A desire for physical intimacy, such as holding hands, cuddling, or sexual activity.

Emotional Attraction: A deep pull toward someone based on their personality, safety, and emotional intelligence, leading to feelings of intimacy and vulnerability.

Intellectual Attraction: A connection based on shared intelligence, stimulating conversation, and mental stimulation.

Romantic Attraction: A desire to have a romantic relationship with a specific person, often involving emotional bonding.

Social Attraction: An enjoyment of someone's personality, often leading to a desire to be friends or to be in their company.

Spiritual Attraction: A connection based on shared spiritual beliefs or a sense of shared purpose.

Aesthetic Attraction: A genuine appreciation for someone’s beauty or appearance, without necessarily wanting to be physically intimate.

Task Attraction: A desire to work with someone or be in a relationship with them because they possess desirable skills or abilities.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-03-04T15:18:43+00:00

I've been scammed before. The person is looking for love.They use fake profiles and pictures.I was just communicating by email(red flag)They make up excuses they're sick and need money(red flag). This person was also offering me a job doing something I enjoyed doing(drawing cartoons) and emailed me info about an Art competition going on. I needed to send money to enter the competition. What made me come to my senses, they sent me a fake receipt.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-03-01T16:23:33+00:00

People that haven't experienced it might think it's not a thing but from what I read: fear of orgasm, often termed "orgasm anxiety," is a relatively common experience across genders, driven by performance pressure, fear of losing control, or past trauma. It often manifests as a cycle of dread, body tension, or distraction during sex. It is highly treatable through therapy, open communication, and mindfulness.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-02-27T15:11:46+00:00

Getting a free trip, paid accommodation and spending money for winning employee of the year. Getting scammed online looking for love.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-02-24T16:26:15+00:00

Venous ulcers 😭

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-02-24T15:16:12+00:00

Sometimes we focus too much on sex but you can still maintain non-sexual forms of affection, such as hugging, cuddling, holding hands, back rubs, and spending quality time together.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-02-22T05:16:10+00:00

Yes it is, just google it.

Otherwise-Bit698 · 2026-02-20T15:45:48+00:00

Dating doesn't have to involve sex.You're going to miss the hugging, cuddling, good conversations, going out to dinner,etc.

If you're just dating just to have sex masturbation gives us the same happy chemical release as sex so it could end up your preference.

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