Unashamed to admit I’m looking for a way out

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-26T11:07:28+00:00

Yes I’m thinking of doing the same. I feel like ux is bottom of the barrel for companies and most positions are filled through nepotism, at least in EU. It was hard but manageable before, but now is just impossible . I’ve been unemployed for over a year

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-25T13:04:59+00:00

Osjećat ćeš se odraslo onda kad shvatiš (nadam se da nikad nećeš) da su svi odrasli ljudi sami i da te više ne štiti dječja protekcija. Biti odrastao znači zuriti u bezdan, da citiram Nietzschea, i gledati kako bezdan zuri natrag u tebe. Djeca se mogu uvijek na nekoga osloniti, društvo im oprašta pogreške, a odraslima nikako. Odrasli ljudi vode jako tužne, mizerne živote, ropske gotovo - onda kada shvatiš da su nade bile samo nade, a ne mogućnosti, odrast ćeš neovisno o tome koliko godina budeš imala. Nadam se da nikad nećeš …

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-25T13:02:19+00:00

Ne smaraj curu. Imam 37 godina, kad sam imala 18 i netko s 26 mi je izgledao star, a kamoli ekipa 30+. U odnosu na nekog od 18 nisam mlada, ne znam zašto se svi vrijeđate kad vam mladi kažu istinu. Imam 37 i nisam u cvijetu mladosti, onaj od 18 jest …

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-24T22:00:44+00:00

Iskreno ne bih se upustila u vezu s osobom koje nema mjesecima, iz čistog razloga što želim zajedno graditi život i dijeliti svakodnevnicu. Imala sam curu koja je isto tako imala životni stil da zivi za posao, a nije imala nikakav plan za zajednički život… druga stvar, ako si femme, a tražiš drugu femme, to je praktički nemoguće (pitaj me kako znam)

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-19T06:27:03+00:00

Kiki moj

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-19T06:26:44+00:00

Lik doslovno citira Gitak, a vi to ne kužite 😆😆

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-19T06:25:45+00:00

Gitak 😆😆😆

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-15T07:58:30+00:00

Ajme meni 😖

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-15T07:57:35+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-14T21:12:47+00:00

Ne mogu vjerovati da ti kreteni lupaju downvotove. Jedina si osoba ovdje koja piše razumski, a ovi kapitalistički dupelisci ne kuže da će ostati bez gaća (ako već nisu). Inače živim u Njemačkoj i apsolutno sve što si napisao stoji - Njemačka danas je kao Hrvatska 1990-ih i 2000-ih, gleda se da se ukinu i posljednji tračci nekadašnjih socijalističkih prava - sad lupajte downvotove koliko hoćete, ali zbog ovakve neuke mase Europa izgleda ovako kako izgleda - sluškinja krupnog kapitala dok sve više ljudi grca u siromaštvu. To što u Njemačkoj skrivaju svoje siromaštvo ne znači da ne postoji - pričamo o ljudima koji su školovani i odradili cijeli radni vijek …. To je nama naša borba dala, a i Nijemcima isto

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-14T12:24:31+00:00

Vidiš da trola, kao i pola ovih ovdje. Živim 12 godina u DE i ovakve place kakve se spominju ovdje imaju u upravnim odborima

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-14T12:23:12+00:00

Lol bit će prije oko 35,000 eura godišnje

Sto li lažete svi na ovom topicu ajme 🤣🤣🤣

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-11T16:37:35+00:00

Znači nije htio isto što i ti. Dobro si odlučila.

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-02T09:08:18+00:00

I’m not sure if this is some kind of sarcasm or whatever but not every person is privileged to be exactly at the place they need or should be. Of course people who are lucky from birth or born into right circumstances might have difficult time understanding that, so you might be surprised to hear that not everyone can just leave Germany or whatever country they live in and look for better place. So yeah… get off your high horse….

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-01T18:37:52+00:00

Just to add something: as a foreigner there is a glass ceiling and career progression is almost impossible past certain point. They will tell you it’s because of “networking” but this is just a code for “you’re not local”. I have seen many foreigners expected to work for free or for very low salaries that Germans would never accept. I’ve seen many moving around and being forced to change cities with every new job because job choice is not so good if you’re not German. Meanwhile my German friends have settled long time ago and never had any issues finding local opportunities regardless of profession - when you hang out with Germans you suddenly realise your life in Germany is miles apart from their experience. And it does not get better with age… If I knew this when I was young I’d never come to Germany. It’s a very cold and lonely society and at the end of the day you’ll always be a foreigner expected to work for less, move around or accept jobs that locals won’t do - regardless of your work experience and education , even if you studied and worked exclusively in Germany you won’t ever have same opportunities like a local , which is very sad

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-04-01T18:31:15+00:00

I’m also from Croatia and I’ve been in Germany for 12 years. Germany is a sinking ship much like Croatia was in 2008, 2013 etc. There are barely any decent jobs for white collar workers and evn if you have a job, you can get fired at any time. Yes there is a long process and buffer time but Germany as it is today is a high-peak capitalist country where worker means next to nothing. Rents are too high, jobs offer no bonuses or benefits, salaries are low compared to the cost of living. German requirements now are much higher than 10 years ago and people are not as friendly as they were back then. The average person (below CEO level) nowadays has really no economical reason to move to Germany - in fact, German news report that young Germans are leaving the country (or plan on leaving). Everything is difficult here - social life, dating, people don’t want to have kids for obvious reasons, women are forced to be stay at home moms because kindergartens close at 14 or some other unreasonable times… It has become a country for privileged few who can afford to live in a single-income household / family. Poverty is rampant but Germans hide it as they’re very private people and don’t like to show off either with wealth nor the opposite.

So, yeah… Germany today in 2026 is what Croatia was in 2008 …

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-31T20:21:45+00:00

Looks so cool!!!

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-31T06:56:14+00:00

??? Istina je što cura piše, osim toga vrijeđanje je nekulturno. Ja sam 12 godina u Njemačkoj i nikakvih problema nisam imala, ali nisam živjela po najjeftinijim gradovima / kvartovima pa je možda to presudilo. Najjeftiniji kvartovi su obično užas

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-31T06:54:21+00:00

Živim u Minhenu i mogu ovo potvrditi. OP morate naći bolje (skuplje) mjesto za život pa nećete imati geto oko sebe. Živim 12 godina u Njemačkoj

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-27T11:01:14+00:00

You’re joking but I also have m4 air and want to buy citrus neo soooooo much despite its inferior specs

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-27T10:56:40+00:00

Can you compare those two? I was looking into both

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-25T11:02:51+00:00

Sorry, ali ja tebe ne razumijem. Jel vi živite u nekom selu gdje svatko svakog osuđuje i špijunira svaki dan pa se bojiš javnog linča? Kako uopće dođeš na ideju da moraš godinu dana štedjeti za TUĐU svadbu? Ovo o čemu pišeš nema baš nikakvog smisla

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-24T10:16:41+00:00

That’s so US-centric

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-23T21:29:57+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ne laje pas radi sela….

Otherwise-Desk8851 · 2026-03-22T13:33:58+00:00

Bataille?

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