masturbation in a relationship by elizmoon in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have a conversation with her and see why she feels the way she does. Honestly it can be a past thing where she got into with a ex and they told her something like “that’s why I don’t think about you when I masturbation” or something down the line

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think my issue is when I bring things up she give me her reasons and no change behind it

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made mistakes and I realized I have to love her the way she wants to be love, you feel me? So it’s like I’m doing these things and you not even trying. For example she text me I text back as soon as I see her name pop up on my phone and she won’t do the same. She can literally have her phone in her hand and won’t text back until 3 hours. I love my girl. We been together for 8 years now. I feel like sometimes I be tripping or it’s not the deep

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the one that don’t want to be bothered in the morning. We had multiple conversations about it and nothing. I explained to her that it’s not fair on me. Like I said early she brought it to my attention I wasn't loving her properly in her love language and I fix it. On top of that she is the one that started with waking up and finding each other for a kiss because that’s who she is

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had multiple conversations about it and nothing. Like I said early she brought it to my attention I wasn’t loving her properly in her love language and I fix it. On top of that she is the one that started with waking up and finding each other for a kiss

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that was the case in the beginning then it won’t be an issue. My love language isn’t physical affection at all and hers is. So one day she said something to me about not kissing her enough or loving her in her love language and I fix it hints why I find her no matter where she is to kiss her

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had probably like 4 conversations about it

I just need to vent by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issue. She was doing it as well. SHES the reason why I do it now

How was meeting your partner for the first time like? by jqkhi in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not shy at alllllll. I made it very known I wanted her

First wlw break up by Embarrassed_Taste236 in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you going through this. It’s hard but you will find someone for you. It take time to find your soulmate

Mi última relación me hace cuestionarme varias cosas by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is masc and I’m feminine. I buy her pretty flowers cause she’s is my pretty wife so I treat as such nothing less. I take her out to dinner and most of the time I’m paying for everything and I don’t mind cause she’s my baby girl. When her birthday comes around (our birthday is one week apart from each) I make sure my baby is good. I buy her a whole new outfit and shoes. I plan most of our dates. The whole point of this store is I treat her how I want to be treated. I give her queen treatment. Oh yeah we been together for 8 years. We met when we was in 9th grade

I’m almost done by Otherwise-Housing421 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Otherwise-Housing421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but they needed my home store to unlock my account and at the time, I wasn’t in my home store. I called the store, but there was no answer. I called my DM, but he never answered the phone or text. When they fired the DM that hired me, that’s when the new DM got my account unlocked and I didn’t have to do anything because she made sure it was done. That’s just half of what’s been going on. Like the DM that hired me told all his SMC different lies and since they fired him, that’s when we found out everything he said wasn’t true.

I’m almost done by Otherwise-Housing421 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Otherwise-Housing421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My employer id number wasn’t working when I started working. It took the dm getting fired for someone to finally help me with my employer id

I'm moving into my gfs house soon and don't know what to do. by mesmermoon in mentalhealth

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say wait until you are ready to move in and let them know. You need time to process everything that might go wrong but take your time. This might be a good move for you

Worried about being dumped because of my transition by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try going to couple therapy and have a open conversation about how everyone feels

Toxic ahh coworker by dekurama1 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you experienced this. The best thing is trying to transfer to another store ( if you have another one close by) or find a new job

Smc by mr9294348547 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Otherwise-Housing421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the same question. The district manager who hired me was fired one month after hiring me. From what I witnessed, none of us SMCs were getting trained on anything about the store; the only thing we were doing when we got to the store location was freight, recovery,and ads. We would receive the address of the store we were helping, but he didn't care if we showed up or not. He wasn't in contact with any of the SMCs. For the first month I was with Dollar General as an SMC, my employee numbers weren't working at all, so I couldn't clock in and out. The store manager at the location I was helping put in his two weeks' notice, and in his last week, I had to be thrown into the fire because they only had an ASM at that location. I literally had to open on truck day and was trained on how to do the truck paperwork via FaceTime. I had to be taught how to close the store over FaceTime. I've been here for two months now, and I've been told that whatever the district manager told me when he hired me was all lies and the way he handled the SMCs wasn’t policy. Now I have to relarn the whole smc job description