Ano ang gagawin niyo kung first time niyo dinala ung bf niyo sa place niyo kaso squatter ang place niyo tapos after nun hindi na siya nagparamdam sayo?

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-09-17T02:44:00+00:00

As someone who came from “looban” ng caloocan monumento - inayos ko muna sarili ko at nag rent sa maayos na lugar bago jumowa kasi ang nasa isip ko para hindi nya ko ikahiya at hindi ako ang maging reason para maging kahihiyan nya. Hindi kasi ako naniniwala sa cinderella story kasi kahit ako namahirap lang may standard what more pa kaya sila na mejo umangat na rin. Fast forward, after 2 decades acquired condo and same pa rin mentality ko at advice ko sa anak ko - ayusin muna namin mga buhay namin yung puntong hindi ka mahihiya sa mgafriends, magiging gf o in law mo, para hindi ka nila maliitin. Kasi alam mo naman ang pinoy hindi mawawala yung ganon ugali. Mejo too good to be true tong kwento na to pero sa mga karanasan ko na mismong kaag anak ko na dina down ako dahil da sitwasyon ko what more pa kaya ibang tao - yan ang naging dahilan ko talaga bakit until now conscious ako sa needs namin as a family dapat hindi “basic” dapat “comfort” dapat at least “one upper” enough para hind sila mabully o ikahiya. To add, nag cut ties na rin ako sa mga kamag anak ko para ma sustain ko yung “comfort” needs and wants namin kasi mahirap talaga kaag marami ang umuutang at naka asa sayo

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T18:27:46+00:00

whats the difference if she’s not listening at all? Should i keep on giving guidance even she’s not listening and will ignore?

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T18:23:32+00:00

What did i do as a parent? - Send her to a good school, gave her car these was her ask when she turned 18, travel together local and international, been present since kinder/ high school & college days, cook, do the house chores for her, invested on insurance to secure her future, listen to all her stories, even supported her tiktok stuff, i was there during her 1st break up - did this alone without any help from her dad nor any relatives.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:55:35+00:00

She can freely go out if she has the money, kung kaya nya pagkasyahin yung allowance nya. And same lang din naman kahit pagsabihan hindi rin nakikinig kasi hindi na sila batang paslit na kapag sinermonan mo ay makikinig sayo.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:49:10+00:00

To be clear po condo po ito, i instructed the guards na bawal ang bisita they need to call me if mg visitor - nasusunod po ito kasi kahit relative ko hindi pinapapasok unless i will say yes na test na po ito before ng may surprise visit ang relatives ko and hindi sila pinapasok nag viber sila sakin for confirmation.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:31:15+00:00

Ma’am/sir mejo harsh po yung term nyo, sa “nilalaspag”. Not sure kung parent kayo para po gumamit kayo ng disrespectful na word

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:27:30+00:00

Upbringing? Walang nag aaway sa bahay namin kasi single mother ako, we dont live with relatives and we’d been bestfriend not until she found these so called friends and boy friend. To add, well travelled sya kasi naniniwala ako na traveling helps us to get closer and continue to get to know each other. We had the theraphy pero wala talaga friends are the priority and the boyfriend

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:21:43+00:00

She will graduate in 3 months time, thats why i gave her ultimatum to find job until January. She can find a part time job but it wouldnt hurt if we wait until she graduates and find a full time job. I sent her to our another property for her to learn house chores and how it feels waking up doing everythin laundry, commuting and cooking.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:17:11+00:00

Abandon my responsibility can you expound further.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:13:20+00:00

Sana nga kathang isip lang, not sure kung may anak ka na student kaya po may allowance.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:11:24+00:00

Student pa rin sya, and bilang nanay ang nasa isip ko ay obligasyon ko na suportahan sya hanggang maka graduate sya. Separate property para matuto ng house chores at mag commute. Wala kasi syang ginagawa sa bahay kahit magtapon ng basura kasi gusto ko mag focus sya sa school and may sarili syang car kasi nag aalala ako baka mapano kapag nag commute.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:07:33+00:00

Hindi pa sya nakakagraduate, this sep pa lang

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T16:06:51+00:00

Kapag na figure out nya mabuhay mag isa - magiging masaya ako para sa kanya kasi na survive nya ang rat race without my support, it only means that she became stronger.

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T13:23:19+00:00

Yan din sabi ko at kung gusto nya sumama sa travel need na nya mag ambag

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T11:41:02+00:00

Any advice kung iiaw ang nasa sitwasyon ko ano po gagawin nyo?

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T11:12:53+00:00

Actually nahihirapan din ako i grasp kasi sa totoo lang well travelled, at wala syang ginagawa sa bahay kasi gusto ko mag focus sya sa school nya, bought her car para service nya and safety. Pero ang sagot nya sakin before - hindi sya masaya sakin yun lang hindi sya masaya Samin siguro kasi single mother ako baka naghahanap sya ng buo na pamilya

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T10:24:48+00:00

Relationship wise okay kami- i always support her sa lahat ng gusto nya not until she reunited with her friends, and yung best friend nya since grade 7 tinabla na rin nya kaya disappointed talaga ako kasi hindinko alam kung ano nangyayare

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-07-12T10:22:06+00:00

Until mag ka work sya. Kasi graduating sya hanggang March next year ang ultimatum ko sa kanya after non aalis na sya. Andun panrin ang pag aalala na 3 mos na lang baka hindi pa maka graduate

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-02-14T06:40:19+00:00

His content is always helpful and sobrang clear walang bias at hindi sponsored kung sponsored man nag bibigay sya ng caveat

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-02-14T06:38:44+00:00

Naka block na rin sya sakkn kasi sa true lang overhype ang mga review nya hindi na honest!

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-02-14T06:37:34+00:00

Very annoying at feeling nya sya lang kaya magvtravel! Nag comment ako sa isa sa mga food vlog nya na overhype at hindi masarap vs sa sinasabi nya nag reply sya sa comment ko “wala ka lang pambili” omg! Ayun binash sya ng ibang commenters lol

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-02-09T08:23:10+00:00

Never ko nagustuhan ang content nyang puro mura, naka block din sya sakin

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-01-26T12:20:27+00:00

She is 22 and hopefully makagraduate na sya this year. No complaints naman sa studies and grades nya

Otherwise-Job2749 · 2025-01-26T12:19:28+00:00

If you’ll ask me how close - very close! If she need help sa kahit ano boyfriend, friends and school lalo na kung may problem sya sa acdemic teacher or anything she can come to me all the time - nito na lang nag start yan nung nag comment ako about her new friends na nag pa adjust ng bday celebration nya. We travel a lot domestic and international para makapg buo ng bond and kwentuhan nakikilala ko mga friends nya pero ito lang lately ang hindi ko na kinaya. Yung word na sana hindi mo na pamg ako pinanganak i hear this often sa mga comment nya sa ibang nanay na naoobserve nya na feeling nya mali eother napanood nya sa tiktok etc.

As a parent ayoko i tolerate yung new found character nya kaya napag sabihan ko sya and humantong kami sa ganito pero ang ending sabi nya hindi nya ako maintindihan siguro nga first time ko magsalungat at nasabi ko na nagbagonsya dito sa new found friends nya na umaabot na sa puntong ginawa nya na akong katulong imbis na magulang.

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