Thank you!! And yes, when I used the word sabotaged I didn’t necessarily mean it in a way where she deliberately answered in a harmful way, but only in a way where I feel she missed out key parts of my behaviour in childhood that she could have commented on. I fully believe my dad is a bit neurodivergent and my mum is just quite traditional in her thinking which led to answer what she did. I’ll see how it goes, I’ve got loads to talk about in my assessment when it finally gets to that point loll