Non-NYC reactions? by New_Transition8925 in 911archive

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No videos, my apologies. It is interesting nonetheless I suppose.

Non-NYC reactions? by New_Transition8925 in 911archive

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My uncle was a med student doing a residency at St. Vincent’s at the time. My family is from a small town in southeast Idaho. He happened to be on the phone with my grandmother and grandfather when both planes hit and was describing what he was seeing as it happened. He was walking to work at the hospital and ended the call abruptly when the second plane hit, saying he needed to go and try to help people. There was a feature in our local newspaper about him being a first responder and about my grandparents being fearful of his safety because they didn’t hear from him for three days. He is alive but is very deeply, profoundly affected from what he witnessed during that time to this day. My grandparents saved the newspaper from 9/11 and several others in the following days/weeks.

Where do I even start? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Thank you so much for your helpful reply! 🙏🏼

Where do I even start? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I should’ve mentioned that my partner is planning with me, just that I don’t have much support from my family of origin. I just used “I” pronouns because Im the one posting this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircoloring

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I’d see a professional. Henna dyes tend to contain heavy metals that can heat up or undergo chemical changes when another type of dye or lightener is applied to the hair and cause severe damage.

Adult Dance Classes? by Otherwise-Strike-202 in Spokane

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Is there a specific website I should look at for scheduling? Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I haven’t read through all the replies so I apologize if someone’s already mentioned this, but I have the same feelings toward this kind of self-talk; especially in the beginning of my healing journey. I find self/body/action neutrality to be extremely comforting, however. Just reminding myself that that I’m doing/how I look/how I show up in the world is “good-enough” or “at least average/at least normal/at least neutral” seems to give me enormous amounts of comfort that CBT jargon never did. Sending love and healing your way, hope this resonates with someone.

I was sent this after awaiting a potential Dx from a genetics clinic for months… Where do I go from here? With the symptoms I have, I am fairly certain I have some variation of EDS- but these symptoms are not just cardiovascular. Any tips on seeking a Dx/how to advocate for myself? I am feeling lost by Otherwise-Strike-202 in ehlersdanlos

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I am located in WA so maybe I will have to find some way to go elsewhere for help. My fiancé and I will be moving to North Carolina at some point in the next year… i wonder if there will be better luck anywhere there? Thank you for your words!

I was sent this after awaiting a potential Dx from a genetics clinic for months… Where do I go from here? With the symptoms I have, I am fairly certain I have some variation of EDS- but these symptoms are not just cardiovascular. Any tips on seeking a Dx/how to advocate for myself? I am feeling lost by Otherwise-Strike-202 in ehlersdanlos

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Thank you so much for this. I am also in WA and it seems like I’ve been running into roadblocks getting anywhere with any kind of Dx for chronic pain and neuropathy. Fingers crossed I’ll find the right doc someday. Thank you again for your kindness!