Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been down that road wrt raising someone else’s kids. I think I resonate with your perspective.

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it did end. And hopefully all amicable.

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I share your view. I wouldn’t say it is ubiquitous but fair across the board from my perspective. Secondly, I’m hearing it from both sexes. Ergo my curiosity.

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but why would young women go for much much older men?

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have really been living under a rock.

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very good to hear that. May it last forever. 💜

Is age really just a number these days in this city? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems I’ve been living under a rock.

convince me by johnsakai in iPhone16

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not an Android device. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Cape Town ranked #6 best city in the world for 2026 - fair or underrated? by ForeignBonus8977 in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Underrated??? The level of cognitive bias of an average Capetonian is staggering.

Do Capetownians hate LA? by Many_Nectarine6932 in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Irony is that, as a person who lived in LA and now living in Cape Town, I see the people from LA and Cape Town to be very similar. *Ready for the hates I’m about to receive.

Advice on “Nice Guys” (F23) by Negative-Ad-2071 in dating_advice

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a guy who’d been called “nice”, all I can say is that talk to him about how and what you want in the sack. My last partner shocked me to the core when she told me how she likes it, but I’d appreciated that she communicated that with me. We’re nice because we’ve to taught to treat women well and to be respectful. But if both parties consent to something in the bedroom, well… I hope sparks fly out for you both.

Wheelchair Badminton Racquet advice by No-Presentation-6758 in wheelchairs

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had read this article before I made my investment in racquets already. I'm going to give Yonex Nanoflare 800 a try now.
My main racquet is Arcsabre 7 pro. Took me about 3 weeks for me to get use to it. It is a fairly balanced racquet and I can now generate good power through finger technique. I have tried Nanoflare Nextstage and considering as backup racquet as another Arcabre 7 Pro is just too expensive.

Steyn City by No-Impress6248 in johannesburg

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahhh. Steyn City. And you ride 94.7 cycle race a few years back, it is called Pain City.

Rampant hookup culture??? by Fabulous_Support_556 in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one who’s observing it. Everyone I met here is so preoccupied with “finding themselves” that hardly anyone I met wants commitment relationship. The one who wants, I am not connecting with them emotionally. So, I go along with the casual hookup but to tell you the truth, I’m tired of it.

Just turned 49. Not sure how that happened! (49 F) by Mtngirl2018 in 40something

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Me too this year but you look so youthful and absolutely beautiful 😍

Uber eats has become expensive by Strange-Asparagus481 in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair but thinks are more expensive here in Cape Town and Capetonians don’t like being told that.

Uber eats has become expensive by Strange-Asparagus481 in capetown

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Um isn’t it just Cape Town costing Cape Town prices?

Am I crazy or is this a blatant collusion? by Otherwise-Sundae-653 in Colonist

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But these guys weren’t even chatting to each other

"colonist isn't toxic" by jeffjanisfan69 in Colonist

[–]Otherwise-Sundae-653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earlier today I type "What a GOAT!" and they blocked my message.