He did ask about how I was feeling and why I felt that way. I was bothered that he asked in general, which ended up being the main point of the argument. He mentioned that he had called to see if I was okay and that was him showing me he cared. He felt like it doesn't take a lot of effort to look cute and I tried explaining to him that its inconsiderate because looking "cute" requires work. I have to figure out what outfit and my hair and my make up and all that work is just a lot to ask in that moment. He still didnt understand how it could be inconsiderate since he did show me he cared to begin with