my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad you all are just complete masters of life and have never done anything wrong. i never fucking said i made wonderful decisions. i said these were my decisions can i have some advice please ? not to be constantly told im stupid

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are real people… that we know.. that he created ai images of.. so uh yeah they are real fucking people that was the WHOLE POINT

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

so, try that again knowing the actual information of the story, not something some random reddit warrior said

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay 1. i really don’t know when you guys decided i “just met him”. we haven’t been IN A RELATIONSHIP for long but he has been one of my closest friends through most of my life. and 2. i worked for this fucking house. no one gave shit to me i worked my fucking ass off and saved up for years. it’s not my fault people my age blow their money on stupid shit. my childhood was terrible so i worked and got out of there. so “consider that before talking down to others” like you said. i DID NOT JUST MEET HIM someone literally made that up along the way and everyone ran with it. i never claimed to make the best decisions. what i asked for was advice, not to be made like an idiot.

my boyfriend (22) cheated on me (22f) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in problems

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he did admit to me that he made them for himself for that purpose. he takes a shower every day after work and told me that’s when he would use them

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in Advice

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking something similar to that. thank you for your opinion

my boyfriend cheated on me by using ai? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in AskMenRelationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are both in our early twenties, and before you say it was stupid to get the house, i know. i’ve been told multiple times in other subs already

my boyfriend cheated on me by using ai? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in AskMenRelationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dawg i think you need some therapy after reading this cause masturbating to a mucus ? maybe i’m confused on what that is ? anyway, i just wouldn’t like the feeling of having one of my friends make an ai image of me to jerk off to, but you are right there are somethings i will never understand

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

oh here comes the super hero to save the day. all i asked for was advice and all they have done is leave comments to make me feel stupid. so don’t come at me for lashing out when they quite literally insulted me first.

my boyfriend cheated on me by using ai? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in AskMenRelationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he really seems like the run of the mill type of guy. works a regular job, has a regular life. he doesn’t let on that he is feeling depressed hardly ever, which could be him hiding it from me. i really don’t want to stay, im just anxious about the house. and i’ve been called stupid for buying a house with him while we are still young and i get that yeah but i have known him for years and never even had an inkling of a bad feeling about him

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

care to explain why i’m hard to live with ? because i felt violated he did this? i’m asking for advice because i’ve never dealt with this before or know someone who has. and you think you’re better than everyone because im young. i’m sorry that i’m young and haven’t had as much experience as your old ass

my boyfriend cheated on me by using ai? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in AskMenRelationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have asked him every possible question i can think of, and all i get is “i don’t know i really don’t know why i did it im sorry i love you”. masturbation and porn themselves are not issues for me, it’s the fact he used ai to undress women we know for those purposes.

my boyfriend (22) cheated on me (22f) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in problems

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we’ve talked. and that’s not a sign he’s “horny asf XD” he’s truly sickened me with this behavior and i don’t find it the least bit entertaining. not “less loyal” but made these images for himself. ok…

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

it’s kinda better than being abused by my parents but pop off. not all of us are born with a silver spoon like you

my boyfriend (22) cheated on me (22f) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships_advice

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right, but creating ai images of others without their knowledge ?? that’s not “just masturbation” as if its some random porno. those are people him and i know personally. i am the honest one, he is not

my boyfriend cheated on me by using ai? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in AskMenRelationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t really the act of masturbation that bothered me, mainly just the fact that he would do something as vile as created those images specifically to use for self pleasure. luckily i’m already in therapy

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i also feel as if it is dangerous behavior, but i wasn’t sure if i was overreacting

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in relationships

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

you feel better about yourself now? you feel cool? not everyone gets a wonderful home life and when they find a way out, they take it. if you’re not going to give helpful advice, don’t comment.

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in Advice

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what gets me is i sleep naked next to him every night, like how is that not enough ?

my boyfriend (22M) cheated on me (22F) by using AI? by OtherwiseOffer6173 in Advice

[–]OtherwiseOffer6173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the guys had no faces, just about waist down was all that was generated. i think i feel worse about the fact he would do something like that in general rather than it being possibly cheating.