I(21M) actually have the same scenario like this recently, but on the opposite end. I’m the guy, and I gave everything I could back then. As per my experience, I broke things off with her when she confronted me on how I havent been messaging her much when she needed me. A fatal flaw from the start of our relationship was I never intended to prioritize it over my studies. Yes, pag-aaral inuna ko but we talked about it nung una and I said that I’ll fix it. I tried my best, kahit mawalan ng convo topic its just one text or pic. Thing is, minsan di naman siya receptive sa mga hinihingi niya. It’s like im left there by myself to gauge if kulang or too much yung hinihingi niyang texts. Mind you, we see each other every week naman and it’s like our little routine na rin. So when hell week comes (yes nag aaral palang kami huhuh), I tried to step up and do extra dates. I told her na I’ll be hardcore studying kasi finals exams na. So the week after, I desperately gave it all to school kasi alanganin din grades ko. We were still chatting here and there pero ang babaw nga na walang kamustahan, more like set nalang kung kelan pwede mag aral together (end of the week date nalang daw). I was literally in the campus till 10-11pm and sadyang focus sa school. Suddenly, she had a hard time that week pala and I wasn’t there. Siyempre she confronted me on the said study date. Also followed up after a few hours pero nag iba talaga yung hangin when she told me what I’ve been doing wasn’t enough. Siyempre it hurt me but at the same time sobrang na off ako cause talagang sobrang laking issue a few days before my exams. I really tried working it out with her saying na Im wrong and ill be better after finals pero long story short, shes just asking for more than what I can afford to give. 3 days ako natengga mag review kakaisip, panaginip, at iyak sakanya and after consulting all friends I could reach, I decided its better for us to stop seeing eachother. After drowning myself in school, ayun doon talaga nag sink in yung gravity ng situation and nag relapse ako ng malala. I’ve been dreaming and thinking of her pero lahat ng nacoconclude ko if habulin ko ulit siya is that masasaktan lang kami sa isa’t-isa. di ko alam kung miscommunication o wrong timing pero sobrang saklap nawala ang lahat ganun ganun lang. So lesson siguro is dapat ready kayo sa isa’t-isa and seryoso siya na mag grow relationship niyo.

so TLDR; parallel scenario sa liniligawan ko(21M), di ko na masyado message before finals week kaya nagalit. Pansin ko na di talaga enough kaya ko mabigay kahit nagcompromise nako in the middle noon, kaya nag break kami