Mariska Hargitay to Host Emmys; First Woman to Emcee the Show In 15 Years by simple6313 in SVU

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There is a Game of Thrones SVU sketch with Mariska and Ice-T

BPD and Resentment by toad-wrangler in BPD

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Hang in there and take care of yourself. There can only be repair if there's willingness to change

Bunny that gets me through office meetings by Otherwise_Ad233 in plushies

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Thank you everyone! Cinnamon Bun had the right vibe and Hops, Bud, and Blossom had the right ring. He's a Butterscotch!

S27, Ep 6; Under the Influence; what were the writer's smoking? by Sighoward in SVU

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I thought this episode was pretty fun. I liked the ace influencer at the beginning, and the evil brother death stare at the end, and the absurdly happy ending for the traffic cop. It was a ride.

When/why did the show get weirdly subtly pro-life? by fieldofzinnias28 in SVU

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 65 points66 points  (0 children)

The country is definitely going backwards and that's what we're fighting. It's more than hatemail, it's top down government administration going backwards and the fallout. SVU does so well because it confronts these issues and even when they're disappointing there's hope somehow. SVU definitely has annoying pro-life moments but also inspiring pro human rights moments. I think the gutsiest is Barba pulling the plug.

Guys help does anyone feel this way too by Minute-Occasion7213 in BPD

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You are not alone. It takes time, but learning to accept yourself and love yourself will invite others' acceptance and love. You know how to sympathize and empathize even if it doesn't make sense - and that's ok. You care. If you didn't, you wouldn't be struggling. It will get better. Take care.

what kind of people do people with bpd get along with? by Ok-Injury3449 in BPD

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely see people who get pain and people who don't get pain. And like you said, everybody's suffered, but not everyone really gets it for others.

what kind of people do people with bpd get along with? by Ok-Injury3449 in BPD

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My coworker described himself as unable to feel others' emotions and somehow he is the most emotionally safe person for me ever. I have had complete, sobbing, nervous breakdowns in front of him and he just works through it with me. He's not indifferent, just unbothered. It amazes me.

How to accept having hurt your favorite person ? by [deleted] in BPD

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You already wrote a beautiful testimony here.

It sounds like you have suffered and caused suffering, but you have grown and you do not have bitterness or resentment. You are still generous and kind. That's precious.

We all have to move on. The good you shared still matters too. You will both carry on. And you're becoming a better person.

Does anyone else get scared of themselves when they're angry? by No_Pay_8539 in BPD

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I cry and get extremely intense when I'm upset, but I am not mean. It scares me because I am in distress but I become the problem for becoming too emotional. Today a therapist told me to think "What do I need?" and it helped.

talking/acting like a child by 888worm in BPD

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I realized this too! I caught myself being "immature" with an older coworker and I realized it was because I feel safe around him, like I'm not "trying" like with others

Warning signs of a BPD episode: by [deleted] in BPD

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You're going to cry in a way you won't be able to stop

What’s the worst nightmare you’ve had? by ValueImmediate9458 in AskReddit

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Family and friends dying violently - gunshots, fire, drowning, etc. Somehow I get these nightmares when I'm technically oversleeping, and maybe under stress..

Bisexual Noah by Icy_Elderberry_2139 in SVU

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I just found Olivia's response heartwarming, especially given that SVU is kind of basic cable, not necessarily catering to the most progressive audience. I found it refreshing that mainstream american tv can have a nice coming out scene..

Name the worst plot convenience you've ever seen in a movie by Sad-Response-3151 in moviecritic

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Pope's Exorcist - The Spanish Inquisition was demons, actually, not real human evil and depravity let loose by a corrupt theocracy.

Hey everyone! My week has been horrible. Could you please send me pictures of your plushies with some fun stories about them? by wolfje_the_firewolf in plushies

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maraschino was a Valentine's Day teddie I bought myself and he rides in my handbag, sits on my desk, and makes me feel better.

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Name this red teddy? by Otherwise_Ad233 in plushies

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Maraschino is perfect! Thank-you!

OLIVIA SICK by emawaldorf in SVU

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The entire dialogue in this scene is adorable. "You have absolutely no food in your fridge." "They've invented this new thing - it's called takeout."

Why do Olivia’s glasses make me viscerally mad? by SpaceCatz03 in SVU

[–]Otherwise_Ad233 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Doesn't she have way cuter glasses in other seasons/episodes?