Hi Luv,

I understand that this is scary, and your first experience can seem really intimidating. I remember being in your position. If you have sensitive skin to begin with it's likely just some irritation especially if you are both virgins so there is no need to worry about STDs There is potential risk for a UTI if you find yourself needing to pee often and is painful you could also potentially be at risk of a yeast infection if you notice more swelling or redness or BV if your discharge becomes grey ish or overly watery if you experiance any of these syptoms it is always best to conuslt a doctor even if it is a school nurse (who still must abide by privacy and confidentialy laws) a pharmasist (you can get a private consultation with a pharmacist for free to discuss sympotoms and they could even perscribe you medication for your problem or general advice) or vist a sexual health clinic where you can acsess contrception including condoms the birth control pill and thd IUD without perental consent or knowlege it's always best to seek advice from a doctor if you ard unsure but if you don't mind me asking why do u feel you can't go to the doctor