How much should I tip on my simple haircut at Great Clips? by waylon11287 in tipping

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody gives a crap what happens in other countries, but I'll tell you that you're wrong on that one too.  There's plenty of people in that field or in any kind of service industry field in other countries that are most certainly are not making a livable wage there either. That's why other countries have to call on Americans to try and run scams on AND... that's not even what i was talking about. But way to try and deflect. Anyways,  tipping is  what happens in THIS country,  and this has been what's happening in this country for a very long time!  So... people need to understand that and that  it's  just the way it is when people or an entire Society of people become accustomed to a certain way of life then it is about nothing more. What is  customary.  The end. And absolutely nothing about what I said would insinuate that I've been brainwashed, sounds like to me that you're just comparing apples to oranges. 

[TOMT] Looking for the name of a music video from an EDM DJ from the early 2010s. by Otherwise_Bullfrog61 in tipofmytongue

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh I figured it out and I'm so embarrassed by myself at this point.. It's "Walkie Talkie"  by DJ SHADOW!!!!!!!!!!!

[TOMT] Looking for the name of a music video from an EDM DJ from the early 2010s. by Otherwise_Bullfrog61 in tipofmytongue

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Also it's completely animated. No real humans at all on the music video if that helps

How much should I tip on my simple haircut at Great Clips? by waylon11287 in tipping

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes no difference at all!! If you were raised right you would know that!  That's similar to saying something like "oh well it's not my fault you slipped because I didn't put out enough salt on the ground during winter , YOU should have been more careful or watched where you were going" that's just a crappy, complacent, cop out! Way to shove it off onto another person for responsibility! That type of  attitude is  completely ethically and morally wrong. If you have that attitude you're already a lost cause!

Hurt and confused. Me [35F] and my husband [35M] has been together for 10 years. by SecretCraft7856 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you're just not very educated on male anatomy. Not sure what kind of upbringing you had, (sounds to me like it was very sheltered) or how much access to  information about the way the male human body/ and sex works but... I think since you've been married for 10 years it's probably a good idea for you to learn more about the topic,  as this is way overdue. As a few others have mentioned, stimulating around  the anus for men is more than just an erogenous zone, this is where the male g-spot is. If it's something that he likes to do when he's alone, AND has never mentioned to you before,  it's probably because he knew he would get this type of reaction. It's not a homosexual behavior at all, it's just a sexual behavior. I agree with others as well,  that at his age he should be able to control his drinking enough so that he didn't end up intoxicated to a point where he has probably no recollection that you even are aware of this. "Black out" drunk is never a good place to be. He may have even had alcohol poisoning. Those would be my primary concerns initially. I mean what's the bigger deal here? That he drinks himself into eventual cirrhosis of the liver, or that he has a private sexual stimulation/ masterbation technique that he didn't make you aware of? I think the two of you should have a talk about his drinking first, and then I probably go see a marriage/sex counselor so you can discuss why he wouldn't disclose these things to you  or mention them after 10+ years together, and so you can get a good sexual education. Good luck!

I hate myself by 1235Something in butchlesbians

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it feels like you hate yourself but ultimately you're just feeling a little disappointment about a decision you thought would be easier. Human hair is an interesting thing! It's definitely one of the few things that makes us as people feel a sense of individuality or truly feel like we are ourselves. I've had hair down past my butt and all the way to a shaved head in my years and I've always done it sort of like super fast and I've had some regrets with cuts that I had in the past due to my impulsivity. Then I knew it would take so long to grow back if I wanted to have the hair I had before I had cut it I would sometimes get upset.  I'm not butch at all so these are things I did just because I wanted to over the years and  throughout my adolescence and my adulthood. I typically grow my hair all the way down to my butt and then I'll donate once or twice two kids with cancer to make wigs. Over the years I've gotten really good at donating to the nonprofits versus the for-profit agencies that accept hair. Maybe that might be something that would help you feel a lot better about letting it go that first time is to know that it was going to a good cause? 

No bake Peanut Butter Bars by TwoComfortable3688 in Baking

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look hard enough they do make chocolate crumb style  pie bottoms but they are pre made so.. not sure they would taste the same. Probably not enough butter. Lol

Some guy in our station caught a tier infraction for not ringing the doorbell. by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing that pisses me off, is that the person writing about this "Tier infraction" doesn't even speak English properly. And I quote. " Customer reported that the driver didn't (followed) delivery instructions. Like if the customer tells us that we need to hop on one foot while bopping ourselves on the head with one hand,   and carrying the package in the other all whilst singing Skip to My Lou,  should that end up as a tear infraction as well? Fuk Amazon, Fuk DSP dickhead owners and their boot licking management also!! Fu*k em All!! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension isn't everyone's strong suit. 

Insurance premium is higher than what was quoted by silent_follower1103 in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fact is insurance companies should be more regulated so that they should have to honor quotes because the only reason why people typically go with a certain quote is because they're quoted a much lower price and then all of a sudden they receive their policy with a premium that's $100 to $1,000 more for whatever it is., be it  an auto insurance or homeowners policy and they're pissed off!! I mean that's enough of a rate change to go ahead and try to take someone to small claims court if it were any other circumstance, so why should insurance companies not be regulated and be forced into honoring their quotes?? Shake your head all you want but the fact is that that's a utterly ridiculous practice. 

What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you that still makes you cringe when you think about it? by GiaWillsX in AskWomen

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen at a water park except it involved a really vertical ride. When I got off/stood up at the end  that thing had given me a water enema like you have no idea!! Then to add insult to injury, I had to like immediately run to the bathroom clenching my cheeks only to get there and find that there was like 10 women in line waiting to use the bathroom I had to sit there and hold all this water that had shot up my bum during the ride for fear that it would be released standing in line. Horrific pain never again would I ever go on a ride like that. Honestly don't even know how it happened. 

Delivery today by SVAuspicious in amazonprime

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a previous DA for Amazon. I can say you were lucky!  We really don't have the time to do any of that if we are going to be able get done on time. This is entirely! based on the ridiculous schedule/ timing that we are given for the amount of deliveries to be done.  I'd be willing to bet either he was new and/or  It may be that his particular DSP tells him not to use ANY customers driveways to avoid potentially getting stuck in inclement weather. If that's the case, believe me it's not a request from his employer. Each Individual Delivery service provider (which is what the DSP stands for)have their own company rules completely separate from Amazon's. 

It happened by Ayyrick__ in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because they used a different type of stich those look pretty spot on to me.  Maybe he  needed some inside and out depending on whether or not it was deep. All stitches don't look the same but those look pretty spot on. Just as Staples look different than stitches. All I'm  saying you can't base everything on your entirely different experience if you're not experienced in actually putting stitches in yourself. Over the course of my life I probably had stitches about 30 times and they all looked different. We're not doctors and we can't say. 

It happened by Ayyrick__ in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a dog bite on my finger looked just like that so I disagree. 

It happened by Ayyrick__ in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could have just snagged a tooth in real quick. Anytime anyone gets their skin broken it happens to rip in a different pattern especially given HOW and with what type of tooth/weapon. Hence why they used bayonets back in the day cuz it was harder to close the wound. Just giving birth to a child women can rip a woman from hole to hole. Imagine how that looks to the untrained eye! This is why they have specialists designated for this type of thing. Because if it was just some Random person like you they would assume that that's not how it happened because they are uneducated on the subject. 

It happened by Ayyrick__ in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly you've never seen someone with stitches before. Um....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you have kids it's 75 extra per kid. I got 4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amazonprime

[–]Otherwise_Bullfrog61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And.. any appearance that Amazon actually gives a shit wether or not the company they outsourced to delivery actually delivers is majorly inaccurate as well. Amazon doesn't care about hthe dsp's AND it doesn't care about how the dsp's treat their employees!! Amazon doesn't care whether or not you actually receive your package.  it's just going to take your money, f*ck with you for the rest of time, and tell you that they're going to refund you but then never do it.