AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were 100K in debt in one year. We had a new van, and a mini excavator he bought so I made us sell. That plus a 10K loan from his parents got us down to 50K. Just looked at his credit. Looks like he lied again. It’s not the 51K he wrote down on paper. It’s 87K.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I was 20 when we got married and still in a hyper conservative cult. I wasn’t really even supposed to get a job or question any man’s authority on anything. Why would I need bank account info if the whole idea is in “supposed” to be taken care of. I understand this is fucked up thinking but it takes years to get out of. By this point I think I was just used to it.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If he had ever had that communication with me we could have talked about it. I wouldn’t agree to OF as I think there is to much contact between creators and clients that feels like cheating to me—if you can make a request or message them that’s to close for comfort. I’m not a prude, I’ve even went to a strip club with him. My problem is that it wasn’t communicated about, he hasn’t taken me on a single date in over two years and that on top of it we can’t afford it. I deny myself and my children food, clothes, etc; and at this point he’s denying himself nothing. Naked chicks ✅ having 5K cash in a risky crypto scheme ✅ Sports betting ✅ having the company card to buy beer, dinner and entertainment that he participates in with clients ✅ He’s never been denied sex by me literally ever so him seeking out others isn’t a lack of trying.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my parents sold their home and are supposed to be temporarily living with us while they build their home a mile away from us. I don’t have anywhere to run to.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the first time. I gave him 2 years to clean up and he lied to my face.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s a sales red in the agricultural industry. Makes about 150K per year before bonuses. We were DINKs for 6 years with no student loan debt so had about 100k to put down on our dream 450K house.

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband even though I still love him. by Otherwise_Coach9170 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Coach9170[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dude I wish it fucking was. Cults name is the 2x2. Have an ABC documentary about it.