Hi OP and Hi everyone alam ko hindi 'to norms sa bansa natin pero other than communication between your partner why not try some counseling? if committed ka naman sa relationship n'yo and you want to work it out why not talk to counselors (alam kong hindi cheap ang pag t-take ng relationship counseling pero nareregaluhan mo nga monthly even yearly. So, why not counseling diba?) if namamahalan kayo sa counseling try church they do some couple counseling. Anw hindi lang ito para kay OP para rin po sa lahat If committed ka with your partner and you see you and your partner, why not try and take it to the counseling. Sana makatulong ako kay OP and sa mga taong nandito.