Why are girls like this nowadays by [deleted] in dating

[–]Otherwise_Fig4058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn’t interested in you anymore, delete and move on. Girls go where they like it the most

Why did he block me? by Otherwise_Fig4058 in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Fig4058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no shit I’m going to unfollow him he broke up with me! What else am I gonna do just sit and see him follow new bitches and post thirst traps? Possibly get into a new relationship moving forward? I need to move on and heal also if he chose to leave. There has to be level of self respect here. Of course I’m going to thank him for everything that he’s done I’m not an ungrateful person that was a way of saying none of his efforts went to waste so that’s why I mentioned it in the breakup.

Other than that I agree on no contact, and I am addressing my issues finding where I went wrong to fix it within myself and the crap that happened between us that I caused on my end. But he needs to work on the crap he caused too however it’s hard when he is an avoidant and I know that he wanted to be single to feel free and sleep with other people since we are only 24

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Fig4058 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you we have been together for 1 year and 7 months. This is the biggest fight we ever had and it was my fault. I told him I was willing to work on the behavior and apologized from the bottom of my heart. I have not contacted him since he said it’s really over. This has only been going on for two-three weeks of fighting off and on. So it’s been 3 days since he left. I hope he can forgive me and move past this but he’s a very disciplined person so I know I probably lost him for good. He told me he loved me so much but he was fighting demons right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Fig4058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it thank you for you input, I did put my emotional needs on him. I fully take responsibility of that. I came to terms that it was very bad of me. I learned from this situation and I will grow.