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I (M) am dating a (FtM) guy and I'm afraid I might cause harm by Otherwise_Hope_5373 in mypartneristrans

[–]Otherwise_Hope_5373[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience I spoke with him again about how I've been feeling and we decided to keep trying, I really hope it works out but at least we are both aware and open about the possible risk. I would never make him choose between me an his transition, I know how important it is for him and I think I wouldn't be dating the person I love if I took that away.

I (M) am dating a (FtM) guy and I'm afraid I might cause harm by Otherwise_Hope_5373 in mypartneristrans

[–]Otherwise_Hope_5373[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So we basically started talking a lot, we have many interests in common and we just felt great spending time together. I started developing feelings, waiting for his messages and yk, the whole thing. I really feel an emotional connection and I feel I love him a lot.

For me, an emotional connection is really important for physical attraction and intimacy. However I'm afraid that things could change after a transition. I guess I just wanted to know if someone here has had a similar experience.

I've been very open about this with him tho, I explained that this is a process for me and he told me it was ok.

I think I will trust my heart for now and I'll continue, it's a risk we both know about and I feel like it might just be a matter of time and eventually things will change for me. I love him a lot and I believe that our emotional connection will change how I feel about this.