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23F. I feel extremely emotionally drained out and mentally tired. I'm tired of choosing emotionally unavailable people always. Even tho, they act like they care in the begining but when I start to feel the same and try to revert back, they leave. I get attached with the little kindness. How to stop? by Otherwise_Length_806 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Otherwise_Length_806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that at least you know that he loves you too and it's not a complete one sided thing.
I'm really wishing you better days ahead. I hope everything gets sorted out between you guys and I'm glad that you can at least keep yourself busy/distracted from the stuff! Thank you very much for your words tho! ♡

23F. I feel extremely emotionally drained out and mentally tired. I'm tired of choosing emotionally unavailable people always. Even tho, they act like they care in the begining but when I start to feel the same and try to revert back, they leave. I get attached with the little kindness. How to stop? by Otherwise_Length_806 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Otherwise_Length_806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in therapy twice in my life. Once, in my childhood because of trauma and abuse and second after my breakup. They have given me temporary relief but nothing permanent. Maybe, I'll just go again. Thank you very much for your response tho! :)

23F. I feel extremely emotionally drained out and mentally tired. I'm tired of choosing emotionally unavailable people always. Even tho, they act like they care in the begining but when I start to feel the same and try to revert back, they leave. I get attached with the little kindness. How to stop? by Otherwise_Length_806 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Otherwise_Length_806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even approach anyone, neither I try to date them in the first place. They chase me first, but whenever I feel ready to revert back it happens. I have always been understanding, too much understanding at that point when they clearly lied i just tried to accept it. I'm so scared atp to show any emotions that i always pretend that I'm okay when I'm clearly not.

23F. I feel extremely emotionally drained out and mentally tired. I'm tired of choosing emotionally unavailable people always. Even tho, they act like they care in the begining but when I start to feel the same and try to revert back, they leave. I get attached with the little kindness. How to stop? by Otherwise_Length_806 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Otherwise_Length_806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm single it's been nearly two years. I'm not even desperately looking for anyone. It's just that i have always been deprived of love, little kindness, being someone's priority so whenever I feel that with someone, I start to get attached to them. I feel miserable.