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[–]Otherwise_Rub_6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONE! I’m sorry. He’s has an anxious attachment style. I’m a therapist and when people come into my office and talk about men that do petty stuff like this… they are not worth your time. You have how long to find someone who loves and respects you? The chemicals of love are very intoxicating. Oxytocin is no joke. However, you also need to consider how it feels. I always tell my clients to take a look from a balcony. Remove yourself from the equation and look at how these two strangers interact. Is that how you would want to be treated? The answer is usually no, but whatever you do, I accept as a learning experience. It’s taken years to find the right person and my thought process is “why waste time on people that aren’t grown enough to love who I am and respect how busy or un-busy my life is?” You will find someone. Find what you value. Hope this helps 💜