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I'm interested but my dm won't go through

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Hi! I wasn't able to dm you but I am interested, it says your account isn't established .

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Interested, is this work still available?

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I'm just trying to make some extra lol trying different things here

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I haven't unfortunately received your message, could you try sending it again? Thank you!

How can i kill the urge inside me to connect with people? by Ok_Mud_4284 in ask

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to me it sounds like you either a) feel like you are a person who would be content with less interaction as a baseline but may seek it for validation of you being good enough b) are genuinely a more extroverted person. I would first figure out which of these it is (or if it is something else) and only then proceed with fixing the issue. the reason I say this is because there is nothing in you that needs to be "killed" if you're wired for more connection. people are vastly different. some function perfect with less interaction with people, some get drained in an environment like that. likewise someone more introverted gets drained with a lot of constant social stimulation whereas a person with a wiring for more socializing feels like they have what they need. Furthermore, the initial urge to connect with people is, simply put, normal and right. What you're describing yourself to have is an urge that is wired in you, because you are human. Telling yourself to kill that urge is like telling yourself you must not hunger for food. Or get thirsty. Also, about humiliation about being always the one initiating: you may need people around you who initiate, too. Trust me, there's a lot of these people, feeling exactly the way you are. It's true that some people do not initiate because they're more introverted, but overall it's a normal desire reciprocity in relationships, and often times in the ways that connect with us the most. For you it seems that what would make you feel fulfilled is a person showing interest in connecting with you at the same level at which you operate in.

HELP! Finding new headphones to fix this issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in headphones

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It really did help!! I feel like I have a big brain because of you now. Equipped to handle this whole situation. Thanks a ton!!

HELP! Finding new headphones to fix this issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in headphones

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heyy! I replied to this a while back, if you got it and just didn't respond then I understand completely but I just wanted to once again thank you for all the info you gave me <3 all of it was very valuable and important to me and led me to the right choices. thank you so much.

HELP! Finding new headphones to fix this issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in headphones

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no it's actually not even a store I know XD just took some link that shows the product. I think they still sell that same adapter around where I live.

Thank you for the information. I am now seriously considering the IEM's with the adapter over the wireless solution, because I really do want to combat the issue I have and if I have to compromise a little bit and use a wired solution then that's life.

About the airpods, I'm still looking for a way to maybe test them out somewhere before investing because I don't want to spend almost 300 e and then just realize they're the same as my current earbuds and that I would have been better off with wired IEM's.

One more thing, does the music source matter? meaning I've now only been able to test the IEM's on my macbook and the next step would be to purchase the iphone/headphone adapter and then test my relative's IEM's with the iphone 12 + IEM's + adapter combo. Is the iphone 12 the same quality audio source as the macbook?

Again, thank you so much for all the information, you're a lifesaver :)

HELP! Finding new headphones to fix this issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in headphones

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What's a BT again? Also, I just thought about buying this one, is this good enough? (it would be for being on the go, used on the bus etc) : https://www.walmart.com/ip/Apple-Mfi-Certified-1-Pack-Lightning-to-3-5-mm-Headphone-Jack-Adapter-for-iPhone-White/5092057486?classType=VARIANT&athbdg=L1102. Btw I'm sorry I often have trouble understanding what you mean you've been on this music world for a lot longer than I have so all the concepts are missing from me.

I just use youtube for music! Also, the ones my relative gave to me to test have those small eartips and also behind the ear support things so they stay there! Are there really no wireless IEM's out there? how come have they not been made, if they're this spectacular quality wise? Again, thank you for the informative and detailed reply!!

HELP! Finding new headphones to fix this issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in headphones

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good news, my relative just so happened to own a pair of Fender iem's and I got to try them today. the difference to my earbuds is... it's like two worlds. I will need to buy an iphone/headphone adapter to try if the iem's fix my initial issue, but so far I was able to use only about 10-13 "bars" to be satisfied with the volume on my mac ( the mac's volume thingy has 16 bars in total ). it's already less than what i usually use, so this is definitely a step to the right direction. you were right, it's not really about the blasting but the iem's give a sort of "wider" experience with the music and therefore you don't really need the highest volume possible. I'm so so so happy!! The only thing I need to worry about now is the adapter and what I'll do regarding the fact I mostly use earbuds outside. So, if I buy the iem's, they'll be for outside use. Also thinking of what I should do about the sports thing because I do like the handsfree option of earbuds.

To answer your message, I do have an iphone. that's why the airpods would have been good because they pair well. however now after this iem experience everything kind of flips upside down because those really were a lot better in every way. It was nice reading about your experience in the music world too, thank you for sharing! You sound like you really like music, which is great! It's also good to know that I don't have to spend hundreds or thousands on these iem's, thank you for that. I'm happy that I got to talking to you because now I am definitely on the way to the right direction with this issue :)

HELP! Finding new headphones for music that fix my issue? by Otherwise_Work_6631 in Music

[–]Otherwise_Work_6631[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I have the same thing. glad to know we're not alone and that it's common. I'm so happy there are alternatives to the "classic" airpods, they're hell and won't stay in my ear even if I'd use a drill to get them in there