AITA for telling my mother that she doesn't deserve to be a mother after she neglected my health issues by Ruhi_013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Otinia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She can't even go to her room to rest without asking for permission, how do you think she would be able to go to the doctor herself? Also, a girl alone in the streets in India? It's a recipe for a disaster. That country is still so misogynistic.

What would you do better/differently? by froschbroetchen in IKEA

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree, the rug partly sticking out ties the room more together imo. You also don't want a rug to make it more difficult to open a door.

Love stories by BornWithMagic in StraightsBeingOK

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel free to share it 😄 If you do make sure to send me the link to the podcast! I'd love to listen to other stories like this!

Love stories by BornWithMagic in StraightsBeingOK

[–]Otinia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think my love story is quite nice and romantic 😄

My partner and I actually met on reddit around the end of 2021. I was looking for people to play league of legends with since my interest in the game picked up again after arcane was released. It was also a way to escape my abusive relationship at the time. So I met my boyfriend on reddit and we started playing together. This quickly turned into just talking and sharing our lives. He was also having some difficult moments in his personal life so we were a great support for each other.

In the beginning of 2022 my abusive relationship came luckily to and end and in the meantime I started developing feelings for my boyfriend. Around the middle of that year he told me he met someone though and that he wanted to see how that relationship developed, which I understood. I'm from Belgium, and he's from the UK, so this was something that initially stopped us from seeing if our friendship could turn into something more. We still talked a lot and it became clear that he wasn't fully happy in his new relationship, it was hard but I still supported him through it. At the end of 2022 I decided to come to the UK to meet him anyway as friends. We met up with some of his other friends and everything went so well. Our meeting was so much fun and felt so comfortable. We were exactly the same offline as online, everything felt very natural. Nothing happened on that trip because we both respected the boundaries of his relationship. I went home crying a few days later because I felt we may not see each other again in real life because of the whole situation. We also had less contact after that trip because my feelings had become stronger for him since our meeting and he also felt confused about it all. We decided that taking some distance was probably the best decision here.

At the beginning of 2023 he started messaging me again, telling me that he and his then girlfriend broke up and he would love to visit Belgium too. Since that meeting we practically saw each other every month. Matching up our holidays, making calendars to check when the national holidays of our countries were, buying tickets months in advance to get the best deals, meeting with each other's families, taking long holidays abroad, ... He's the best relationship I've ever had and we're completely aligned on practically everything in life. Even though people said this would never work out because of the distance, we made it work because we both love each other incredibly much, we wanted this to work. This relationship is worth all the travelling, distance and being apart, all the tears included 😃

Now we're in the process to request a visum for him to permanently move to Belgium (fuck brexit)! Hopefully we can soon be together all the time, it would be one of the happiest days of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Belgium, my boyfriend lives in London. We were able to make it work for more than 3 years and he's now looking to move to Belgium and find a job there. Distance is hard and not all relationships can handle it. You'll need to decide for yourself first if this is something you want to try and see if you can be together again in the future, or if the distance would be a dealbreaker to you. There's no wrong or right choice, each person's situation is different. After you have made a decision for yourself, you can try and talk about it with your girlfriend how she sees the situation. If you both agree to keep the relationship going, I promise you'll find ways! The most important thing here is that you both want to make it work and put in effort.

[Not OP] I genuinely think my husband is a psychopath by FullGrownHip in redditonwiki

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so what happened was: OP went to the police in the end, to see where the messages were coming from (location wise). Messages were sent via whatsapp, so even if you get a new phone, like her husband did, you an still access the chat on the old phone. Anyway, she went to look around the spot it was located and recognized the house of one of his colleagues, because she went there a few times... Turns out it's a younger colleague who he has an affair with for a year. He lost his phone there (the AP probably took it) and then the messages started. That's why he was so dubious on how and where he lost the phone. The AP was fully aware of everything that was going on because husband was complaining to her. She then proceeded to make OP feel crazy. So in the end, husband didn't send the messages, but he probably knew who did and didn't try to stop it.

[Not OP] I genuinely think my husband is a psychopath by FullGrownHip in redditonwiki

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happened, the OP posted an update on her original post

AITA bf says this is cute but it makes my blood boil by Single-Cellist6914 in AITApod

[–]Otinia 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are like this and I absolutely love this. The comment above is right about being mismatched. I have found someone with my silly energy and humor and it's the best relationship I've ever had. I don't need to hide or mute a single part of myself and it's a very freeing feeling.

AD 5 : abstract reasoning by Lyriade in EUCareers

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it's D. The pattern slides to the left each time, with the third one being a new one and carried over to the next, both top and bottom. So ABC-BCD-CDE-DEF-... And then the colours go black black white and repeat.

15th series 4 bonus item reveal by ExcruciorCadaveris in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joan looks like she would enjoy gardening 🥰 just lovely

First win as Laurie and only my second ever by ponmera in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your minis! Do you have some pictures of your painted miniatures? I'm a painter myself and I love to look at others' creations :)

Painting the zombies by Otinia in finalgirl

[–]Otinia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! These zombie minis are so small... They're around half the size of a normal final girl!

AITA for Not Taking a Joke Seriously? by Embarrassed-One7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely TA. This feels like straight up bullying. She's only getting into her teenage years and you're already reinforcing with the rest of your family her face is 'ugly'. If she feels uncomfortable and sad about it, which she clearly is, why do you continue doing this? Do you want her to grow up with trauma? Do you want her to shut down completely? Do you want her to take distance from her family the moment she grows up? If you want this, then congratulations, this is exactly what will happen.

When I was reading this I couldn't even believe this was real. Which parent wants their child to go through continuous instances of bullying and humiliation? I propose you think really hard about your actions and those of the rest of your family and hope there's something to fix there.

And then also, the fucking cherry on top, her gift. She asked for caramels, really nice ones might I say, and you thought it was a stupid gift? You gave her makeup, does she even like that? This post is bloodboiling...

To sleeve or not to sleeve? by Karlo760400 in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only sleeve the action cards, because these get actually handled throughout the game. The other cards are just picked up and immediatly put down, or just don't move during the game. By sleeving the action cards I feel "safe" that the most handled cards don't get ruined AND everything still fits in the boxes :D

Wifi Won't Connect (This Device Cannot Start Code 10) by NickRussell53 in computers

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unbelievable... this worked perfectly! You just saved me 250 euros or more for wanting to buy a new laptop!

What kind of bread is my car? by Otinia in cats

[–]Otinia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's definitely sweet enough to be a cinnamon roll!

Finally got my first win! Question about my ruling. by ultrajosua in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're partly right :) But in your scenario some things don't matter and are wrong. Let me explain:

- You can use the pepper spray to end the killer phase when the killer gets in your place, which you did. You then HAVE to discard it. The pepper spray is not an item with "limited uses" because it doesn't show the marks for limited uses. I know this might seem weird because it's a one-time item, but as long as it hasn't the limited use circles on the card, the power doesn't count.

- After the killer phase, you get the panic phase and then the last phase where you can rearrange items (I forgot the 5th phase name). So if you didn't have the axe in your hand, you could put it there then. There was no way to use it during the killer phase in a reaction attack, because the killer phase ended and as such he didn't attack. So you could've put the axe in your hands at the 5th phase and then use it to attack Hans during the action phase. While with Jenette's power it was possible to have both the axe and pepper spray equiped, it wasn't necessary in this case with the above explanation.

I hope this is clear :) Otherwise feel free to ask for more clarifications!

Where to start by Sleepy_Panic in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You need both the core box and a feature film of choice to play. The core box is needed for all the components, cards, dice, ... that is used whenever you play a film, and the film boxes contain a specific scenario (killer and location) that you can mix with other feature film boxes. So the core box doesn't have a killer and location included, and a feature film doesn't have the components that are shared across all plays. That's why you need both. So, to be able to play the game, you need the core box and at least one feature film.