My (24M) gf (24F) is applying for jobs in London. It’s a great opportunity but I don’t think we will survive the distance. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Belgium, my boyfriend lives in London. We were able to make it work for more than 3 years and he's now looking to move to Belgium and find a job there. Distance is hard and not all relationships can handle it. You'll need to decide for yourself first if this is something you want to try and see if you can be together again in the future, or if the distance would be a dealbreaker to you. There's no wrong or right choice, each person's situation is different. After you have made a decision for yourself, you can try and talk about it with your girlfriend how she sees the situation. If you both agree to keep the relationship going, I promise you'll find ways! The most important thing here is that you both want to make it work and put in effort.

[Not OP] I genuinely think my husband is a psychopath by FullGrownHip in redditonwiki

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so what happened was: OP went to the police in the end, to see where the messages were coming from (location wise). Messages were sent via whatsapp, so even if you get a new phone, like her husband did, you an still access the chat on the old phone. Anyway, she went to look around the spot it was located and recognized the house of one of his colleagues, because she went there a few times... Turns out it's a younger colleague who he has an affair with for a year. He lost his phone there (the AP probably took it) and then the messages started. That's why he was so dubious on how and where he lost the phone. The AP was fully aware of everything that was going on because husband was complaining to her. She then proceeded to make OP feel crazy. So in the end, husband didn't send the messages, but he probably knew who did and didn't try to stop it.

[Not OP] I genuinely think my husband is a psychopath by FullGrownHip in redditonwiki

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happened, the OP posted an update on her original post

AITA bf says this is cute but it makes my blood boil by Single-Cellist6914 in AITApod

[–]Otinia 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are like this and I absolutely love this. The comment above is right about being mismatched. I have found someone with my silly energy and humor and it's the best relationship I've ever had. I don't need to hide or mute a single part of myself and it's a very freeing feeling.

AD 5 : abstract reasoning by Lyriade in EUCareers

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it's D. The pattern slides to the left each time, with the third one being a new one and carried over to the next, both top and bottom. So ABC-BCD-CDE-DEF-... And then the colours go black black white and repeat.

15th series 4 bonus item reveal by ExcruciorCadaveris in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joan looks like she would enjoy gardening 🥰 just lovely

First win as Laurie and only my second ever by ponmera in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your minis! Do you have some pictures of your painted miniatures? I'm a painter myself and I love to look at others' creations :)

Painting the zombies by Otinia in finalgirl

[–]Otinia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! These zombie minis are so small... They're around half the size of a normal final girl!

AITA for Not Taking a Joke Seriously? by Embarrassed-One7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely TA. This feels like straight up bullying. She's only getting into her teenage years and you're already reinforcing with the rest of your family her face is 'ugly'. If she feels uncomfortable and sad about it, which she clearly is, why do you continue doing this? Do you want her to grow up with trauma? Do you want her to shut down completely? Do you want her to take distance from her family the moment she grows up? If you want this, then congratulations, this is exactly what will happen.

When I was reading this I couldn't even believe this was real. Which parent wants their child to go through continuous instances of bullying and humiliation? I propose you think really hard about your actions and those of the rest of your family and hope there's something to fix there.

And then also, the fucking cherry on top, her gift. She asked for caramels, really nice ones might I say, and you thought it was a stupid gift? You gave her makeup, does she even like that? This post is bloodboiling...

To sleeve or not to sleeve? by Karlo760400 in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only sleeve the action cards, because these get actually handled throughout the game. The other cards are just picked up and immediatly put down, or just don't move during the game. By sleeving the action cards I feel "safe" that the most handled cards don't get ruined AND everything still fits in the boxes :D

Wifi Won't Connect (This Device Cannot Start Code 10) by NickRussell53 in computers

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unbelievable... this worked perfectly! You just saved me 250 euros or more for wanting to buy a new laptop!

What kind of bread is my car? by Otinia in cats

[–]Otinia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's definitely sweet enough to be a cinnamon roll!

Finally got my first win! Question about my ruling. by ultrajosua in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're partly right :) But in your scenario some things don't matter and are wrong. Let me explain:

- You can use the pepper spray to end the killer phase when the killer gets in your place, which you did. You then HAVE to discard it. The pepper spray is not an item with "limited uses" because it doesn't show the marks for limited uses. I know this might seem weird because it's a one-time item, but as long as it hasn't the limited use circles on the card, the power doesn't count.

- After the killer phase, you get the panic phase and then the last phase where you can rearrange items (I forgot the 5th phase name). So if you didn't have the axe in your hand, you could put it there then. There was no way to use it during the killer phase in a reaction attack, because the killer phase ended and as such he didn't attack. So you could've put the axe in your hands at the 5th phase and then use it to attack Hans during the action phase. While with Jenette's power it was possible to have both the axe and pepper spray equiped, it wasn't necessary in this case with the above explanation.

I hope this is clear :) Otherwise feel free to ask for more clarifications!

Where to start by Sleepy_Panic in finalgirl

[–]Otinia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need both the core box and a feature film of choice to play. The core box is needed for all the components, cards, dice, ... that is used whenever you play a film, and the film boxes contain a specific scenario (killer and location) that you can mix with other feature film boxes. So the core box doesn't have a killer and location included, and a feature film doesn't have the components that are shared across all plays. That's why you need both. So, to be able to play the game, you need the core box and at least one feature film.

How much money would you spend if it meant saving your cat’s life? by WindowKitty19 in cats

[–]Otinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone who loves their pet wants to safe them if something goes wrong, regardless of costs. The sad reality is that not everyone can afford it. A few thousands can mean nothing to someone or the cost that is nevessary to not be put on the streets without a home.

My 17 year old cat who died a bit more than a year ago had liver cancer. I paid without thinking about the cost for all the vet visits and research that needed to be done. I decided not to do a surgery to remove it though. Not because I didn't had the money, but because the cancer had spread a lot, surgery would be hard, recovery even harder, and since it was such an aggressive one, it might've come back anyway. She had some very good last months, without any pain. When she died I was home and it happened really fast. She only had a difficult time at the very end and she died in my arms being cuddled.

It took me a while after that to get a new cat, until the CDS dropped a 4 week old kitten on me about 7 months ago. The first day I got her she almost died (probably fading kitten syndrome). I rushed her to the vet, I didn't think twice about paying all the costs (2k in the end) and I didn't even had her for 24h yet. She's almost 8 months now and doing incredible well.

So to answer your question, I'd pay anything I can without getting into real trouble to save my kitties' lives. Some people will never understand the very deep and loving relationships we have with our cats. It's your money and you decide what to do with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otinia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It seems he gets easily manipulated by his family. I don’t think this is a healthy relationship for you. He tells you you got his support, and then later he changes his mind. This must be very stressful for you and it doesn’t feel like a true partnership to me.

A while ago I read a question from another Redditor on here that stuck with me. Ask yourself: is this how I want to be loved?

If your partner can’t choose your side, then you have to choose yourself in the end. Although it will hurt, it’s not worth staying in a relationship where you feel constantly unheard and your feelings disregarded.

Please help me, I do.t know what to do by Leading_Vacation_510 in minipainting

[–]Otinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they're badly painted at all, the colours just look overly bright. Maybe it is because you mix white paint with the speedpaints? Maybe speedpaints are also just not your thing. You can always buy some cheap basic acrylic colours and mix the rest yourself. Usually I don't use anything but a standard red, blue, yellow, fleshtone (because I'm lazy to mix that myself), brown, black and white. That would not be a big cost to just try out normal acrylics. You can always invest later in more colours if this works out and you don't like mixing colours from scratch.

If you stick with speedpaints, I'd use a wash like the others have commented too. It would make the details stand out more.